>>139629In many mythologies demons are shapeshifters and incubi and succubi are just the same being at different points, one stealing the seed, the other forcing it upon someone else. It existed as a convenient excuse for infidelity in more superstitious times. Your wife didn't cheat on you with the banker, a sex demon just happened to visit them, raise that kid like your own.
Given they want your seed, they'd probably adopt whatever shape is easiest to work with their victim and for you that'd be dickless.
Of course there's the chance the demon would be in a bad mood and use a dick just for sadistic jollies. Demons tend to be dicks like that, pun intended.
Hell, even the Latin origins of their names don't really mean male or female exactly.
Incubus = in (top, over) + cubare (to lay down) = to lay over
Succubus = sub (under, beneath) + cubare (to lay down) = to lay under
The idea of one being male and the other female comes from conventional ideas of dominance being masculine while submission is feminine. There's also the fact most men end up seduced by women for obvious reasons and vice-versa.
If you wanted to you could technically have a twinky little femmeboi demon acting like a regular succubus while an amazonian dominatrix futa demoness fulfills the incubus role.