>>127811If it were ALL about the dick then they'd be pictures of nothing but disembodied dicks. The women they're attached to is an important part of the equation I think people looking to hate on the fetish often ignore.
I don't feel gay because I don't have any interest in men. Nothing about the male aesthetic is appealing to me. I like curves and gentle features, short torsos, long legs, supple breasts, flared hips, etc. I just happen to think an aesthetically pleasing cock occasionally looks good on that too.
I get that sounds ridiculous, but to someone like me it's not an indication of sex or gender, it's just a part as being tied completely to the realm of unrealistic fantasy means that part can be disconnected from where it originates in real life without taking along any of the baggage.
It's like putting bat wings on a woman and calling her a succubus or slicing off her bottom half for a scaly fishtail for a mermaid. Neither of those things can happen in real life and my interest in succubi and mermaids doesn't indicate an attraction for bats or fish, but for those fantasy forms. Similarly I don't really have any desire to suck dick in real life either.
I get it if you can't make that disconnect in the realm of fantasy. There are things in fantasy fetishes I don't get or particularly like either, but telling someone what their fetish REALLY means when you have a negative bias while ignoring their arguments just seems silly.
