ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

>Brandon or Female Brandon
Piss off.

>Frog
Also piss off.

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How much will having a flat chest kill my chances of getting a boyfriend?
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Help me /adv/

There are two grills

Grill A is SUPER qt, outgoing, and might like things I enjoy. However, I don't really talk to her that much.

Grill B is crazy smart, likes the same things I do (anime, math, etc.), is Asian (a plus), has a similar personality with me, and I talk to her somewhat frequently. However, she is lacking in the looks department, and can be a 3/10 on a bad day, and a 5/10 on a good day.

Who do I go for?

shoplifting advice

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my current predicament: i called a guitar center about a $130 pedal i fully intended to buy at the time. when i walked in and saw how unsecure the place was my intention changed and, forgetting i called from my number earlier, I stole it. am i fucked?
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I start university in two months

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What advice would you give yourself before starting university if you could go back in time? How would you prepare?

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My grandma is paying for the entire thing. I plan on majoring in electrical engineering but I'm really trying to find a reason not to. I plan on studying 3+ hours each day, easily. I'm not worried about not being good enough. I'm just worried that it won't be the best choice and that I would have been better off in an easier major like business. The university is Penn State.
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One of my friends is severely kept to themselves. I mean they give people almost 0 opportunities to open up to them. If someone was to ask what kind of music they liked, they would probably respond "I don't like music" even though they like music and want to make friends.

I've gotten them to open to me a bit after years of getting to know them. I have an idea of how to talk to them. I fear this person will never achieve their desires of companionship and romance.

I think I'm a sort of anchor for them for various things. I won't always be in their life though.

How do I aid them in this?

Bad boys

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From what i understand women like bad boys because they're assertive, unpredictable and exciting but in a negative way.

Assertive in a negative way could be him being very possessive and using physical or verbal abusive force on her.

Unpredictable in a negative way, as in he'll show up on a date 5 to 25 mins late, or he lives a dangerous lifestyle and she worries about him being dead or in jail when she's not with him.

Exciting in a negative way it could be, him stealing a motor boat for him and his gf to ride together, Sneaking into a neighbors hot tub, and just stuff you ought to not be doing for a thrill.

How can you turn these three things into positives how can you be more assertive, unpredictable and exciting in a positive way.

I think i know one way to be more unpredictable, is to drop phoning and texting and mix and match the times you ask her out, so she has to wonder when you'll ask her out on a date. Texting is bad for relationships anywho, 93% of communication is non verbal.
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I'm totally fucked

Rent is due on monday and I'm not getting paid until next friday, and just had to shell out all the money I had for car repairs

what do I do?

Get It Off Your Chest

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didn't see one in the catalog.