>meet this one girl, sporty, plays music, cheerful and nice to hang around >apparently has a boyfriend so declines obvious date offers, I end the contact
>a year and some months later meet her again, seems always happy to see me, seemingly single now >ask her out on an action date, she agrees and it goes really well, responds nicely to playful interaction and touches >allegedly has very little time for dates and I like to keep non-IRL communication with people to a minimum >decide to go balls to the wall and bring her to my place >she allows kisses but firmly fights against overly intimate physical contact and shortly decides to leave >a battle of who-has-the-biggest-balls ensues where each is unsubtly threatening to break up there and then >I back up a little but try to make it clear that I'm displeased and don't really care if she leaves, she just calls me out on being pissed off and not being straightforward >before her leaving demand that since she's so upset she should set up the next date >she giggles out an okay and leans to let me kiss her Okay so obviously she wants to feel some stability before going anywhere further, the question is, on the scale of 1 to 10, how fucked up am I?
It.... It was going so well. I asked her out, she agrees and gives me her address, I confirm a time to pick her up on the day of the date and she basically says she can't go, I respond sorta asking why and then she sends me this...
Is there a chance? I really like this girl. What should I say? This fucking sucks.
>Really want to learn to drive already >Finally get a chance for a lesson >Get behind the wheel, can't even pull out of the parking lot without starting to panic >Chicken out not even a minute in
What the fuck is wrong with me? I don't know if it was the other people on the road freaking me out or the fact that I was thrown right into things with barely any experience. I'm just so fucking angry and frustrated with myself because I should be able to do this shit. I'm a goddamn adult. How do I stop freaking out behind the wheel?
Law school finals in a month, so starting this Sunday I'll have no more free time. It will be study study every single day.
Here are my two options for the night.
1. Law school semi-formal dance. $20 to get in, cash bar, will have to uber, can't see myself getting laid, and possibly spend saturday hungover. Total cost probably around $75-100 for the night.
2. Play Halo 2 and order pizza
Struggling here advice. I should be social, but I'm 26 and don't really care.
A friend of mine won't stop being flirty and aggressive toward me. We've known each other for a couple years and are not extremely close. He's generally reasonable, but recently his behavior has escalated beyond my comfort zone.
I confronted him recently and I've already told him I'm not interested in him romantically, that I don't want to mislead him, and finally that I will never have anything but feelings of friendship for him. Despite our talk, he continues to bring up his affections at every awkward opportunity and insinuates we'll eventually "be together", even if I have a different opinion now.
I try to keep my distance, but we share mutual friends and work in the same relatively community so it's not entirely avoidable.
Now I come to you /adv/, what are my options at this point? Would it be best to cease all contact and suffer awkward social consequences? Will he get over this phase on his own?
>tl;dr: can you stay friends with annoying admirers, will they get the fuck over it or am i shit out of luck?
The girl I like is super bummed because the guy she likes isn't interested in her. She knows I have feelings for her and she wants to like me back so I guess what I'm asking here is if she'll ever come around to liking me back and what can I do to both help her and make her like me? Pic sorta related I guess idk
I need help from someone experienced in drugs, particularly MDMA. I've done MDMA quite a number of times both at concerts and at someone's place in pill form. However, recently I went to a concert but there were no pills, but instead they offered me MDMA crystals. They were orange-white-ish. It was quite a small shard, maybe 40mg, and I parachuted it. What came next was totally unpleasant, I felt a rush but kind of similar to when you get drunk. I felt high af but I was nauseous, I was dizzy, and I felt that my surroundings (the rave) were absolutely overwhelming. Only had this reaction when I did MDMA for the first time, where I swallowed a very potent pill in one go. Could someone explain to me why this could have occurred? Only other substance I did during the night was 2 hits from a joint, so I doubt that caused it. I also just got another dose of crystals for tonight, it's 120mg of black-white-ish crystals. Should I refrain from doing it? I'm currently not in possession of any purity testing agents.
