95% of the threads made on this board have one simple solution: stop being a dickless faggot and grow a spine.
So let's have a beta-killing general. Share your stories of transformation, tips on how to change one's psyche for the better, and how to avoid potential pitfalls.
>TL;DR Thought about suicide, don't think I wanna do it though. What should I do instead?
You know it's funny, I never thought I'd be the one contemplating suicide but the thought keeps crossing my mind.
I don't think I'll do it because I shivered just typing that out, but it's crazy to think that I've hit a point where not living is starting to seem like a viable option to fix everything. What's even funnier is that nobody would even guess that I'm feeling this way. So what am I supposed to do now? I'm too afraid to get help (and I'm skeptical about how well it'll work anyway).
At least I wouldn't be the first in the family to do it.
I don't know if I should feel guilty or not. If i ask any of my friends they all say no because they're my friends. I need an objective point of view.
Im 23 and this girl is 21. I dated this girl for close to 7 months. She was my first "real girlfriend" and my first love. I date and had sex in the past but nothing serious. She had dated A LOT of guys in the past and slept with triple my number. Just for info. Anyways, the story:
I got really mad at her because during a week a month ago she was doing a lot of things to make me feel bad. Examples, she kicked me out of her house on her birthday before cutting the cake because "i had work the next day and needed sleep", and not giving me an attitude a lot of the time for no reason.
I got really upset and decided to break up with her because of her treating me shitty. Then i started missing her THE NEXT DAY and decided to contact her and apologized and cried and said id change and begged, but she wanted no part of me, she said i broke her heart when i dumped her and she didnt wanna date anyone. I later found out on snapchat she was dating her ex again.
>22 y.o male >recently broke up with gf after 5 years >feelsgoodman.jpeg >qt3.14 azn friend whom I haven't spoken to in years hits me up >hang out a couple times >can tell she's catchin feels >invites me to her house and make me dinner >literally Netflix and chill >nowkith.jpeg >asks me when I will be ready for a relationship >niggawut
I like this girl but I don't want to be in a relationship. I have already told her that I think she's cool but I am not interested in pursing anything atm. Wut do.
>supposed to go on date with girl >she brought it up yesterday, whole thing was her idea >I'm off school and work today so I asked her what her schedule was looking like >"I should be free by 11 today" >alright, text me when you're ready >11 rolls around >no text >I wait patiently >12 aclock, 1 aclock, almost 2 >text her and ask what's up >no response
I've never been stood up on a date before /adv/. I don't really know what I should do. She said that I was paying and that we could switch off after every date so I mean. She's getting free food. If she wasn't interested she could just go there, keep her trap shut and let me feed her and then never call again.
Ive been with my gf for a little over 3 years , and theres a big age difference as im 23, and shes 40. everything has been great in our relationship for the most part. but im stuck in a moral dillema. I love the girl with all my heart , and she truly loves me. the problem is that , 1. One day she will actually start to look "Old" and i mean old like "Grandma" old. and i feel as if i'll be cheating myself as ill only be about 30 or so, 2. She can't have kids anymore, (i've always wanted to have a kid of my own, and unfortunately she cant give that to me)
Again, everything is great between us, but im afraid of the long term pro's and cons,
Has anyone been in a situation like this before? or have any advice on wether to leave now? or continue happily till whenever?
I've pigeonholed my life to a point where i just don't see much hope. I think about suicide every single day, and although I've been concerned and stressed for a long time, it's only recently that i catch myself more seriously thinking about the 'when' and 'how' and how to avoid hurting my loved ones.
my problems in life are a combination of bold-risktaking gone wrong, not having a degree or job prospects in general, and struggling with self employment. essentially i'm at a spot where i can get by and pay (most) bills if i work my ass off, but i cannot get out of this situation because of having to spend the time working. additionally i'm ugly as fuk and struggle with that quite a bit.
What the hell do i do? i honestly don't see a way out. i threw my life away chasing a dream that turned out to be a complete utter delusion. i also feel like a total failure and living with the humiliation of having massively overestimated myself is the worst.
How do you do fun stuff for Halloween? I feel like I will be spending another at home in my bedroom. I'll look at hundreds of halloween party photos on facebook the next couple days. It is gonna feel so bad. Should I just drink myself to oblivion?
Correct if I'm working g, but I the US of Sexual assualt was commited by a person who is related to the victim and the offneder is a minor the punishment is diminished?
*Pic unrelated* So I'm going to an agency soon to look for a part time job. What can I expect? Will it really be as simple as me telling them what I want, what field, handing them my CV and them telling me to fuck off and that they'll contact me with opportunities? Cause that'd be great, I don't wanna be sitting around for hours.
