/adv/.. I have a dilemma.
I've been saying this girl for over two years now and thinking about marrying her..
She's not goodlooking nor very bright, she also comes from lower-middle class.
I'm myself OK looking, have masters in computer science and come from upper-middle class.
But everyday I keep thinking about her and I want her to be part of my life
she loves me unconditionally, she's extremely fun person and gullible and innocent like a child, but my pragmatic side tells me she's going to become a liability.
What should I do?

I want a second job.

But I don't want anyone to see me working. I need a job where I can work a few hours a week eg. Weekend shift but not have to deal with other people.

Ideas?

I'm really not sure what to do here /adv/.
I met this amazing girl tonight that I really just totally synced with. She's had a rough early life (nothing more than your typical teenage angst really though) and she and I really connected (I myself having overdone my own struggles)
I really care about this girl and want to start a relationship with her. She's 18 and I'm 24, the only issue is she is really into BDSM and has a 34 year old "master." She doesn't consider herself important and has comfidence issues (although she says that, she and I got along great for having just met)

I want to improve her confidence and make her see there is more to life than being a sex slave for some way older than her guy. Am I messing with forces beyond my control? Is she too far gone for me to help her? Is there some massively different psychological point of view that I am just not appreciating?
I'm confident that I can help her, but I want /adv/'s opinion.
BDSM experts are appreciated.

About to break up with gf of 5 years.

>doesn't like to speak on the phone even tho I asked her so many times
>continues to be friends with an ex-friend of mine, even tho he disrespected me
>gave her expensive gift despite being broke at the time/never uses said gift
>gives up on everything that seems too complicated and then blames herself so I drop the subject

The main reason why this is suddenly bothering me so much is because I've been to the hospital around 5 times, and she hasn't asked me what I got or if I'm going to get better. I don't understand her lack of interest, I actually do have a nasty condition on my lungs.

Am I being too harsh for being angry about these things?

How to fall out of love?

Hey, I have pectus carinatum(mild) I'm wondering if there is a way to somewhat hide it without surgery and it's too late for a brace. I'm also curious as to if it would be a deal breaker for any women. Thanks.

What do people do for fun, when they hang out? Back in highschool we'd call each other over watch tv and play video games, but now its nothing but going to the bar and getting a few drinks. Do people still do that, or does everything we do as adults just revolve around drinking?

How do I turn a girl around?

Today I ask a girl if she wanted to go out for lunch. She said "Will it be a date?" I responded "Maybe yes, maybe no." She then said "Sorry, but I'm not looking for a relationship. But we can still go as friends." I responded again "Sorry, but I'm looking for a relationship"

How badly did I fuck up?

Should I just move on?

How do I stop unintentionally hurting my friends' feelings? Sometimes I'm just joking around with them, all fun, and I say some shit that I didn't know affected them. I'm feeling like utter shit and beginning to distance myself from them because of this.

ok so i messaging this girl i met recently for a bit on snapchat. Things were going well the first time until last Thursday when I updated it and we were talking and then she put on live chat. i didnt know how to use it and after awhile of failing and succeeding, she gave up. She still had me as a friend though. Then when i tried again this monday, after learning how to live chat she just looked at my message and didnt reply. So now should i message her or should i wait until say next wendsday. Yes im aware that using snapchat makes me a faggot