I barely have any sex drive when with the gf. We cuddle and I get boners, but never feel in the mood, could it be > low libido > asexuality > no sexual attraction to gf > ?
yo I don't know if I need stiches or not. I have a cut similar to the one in the pic, but mine is more of an acute angle, mostly under the skin, with a big flap on the knuckle. I'd take a pic but my phone is broken. inb4 aids
I live in a dorm. We were six people to one kitchen, all of them calm people that doesn't cause much trouble, plus one girl with a strong enough will to keep the rest of us in line. It was the perfect combination.
Then Princess Bitch moved into the seventh room. She doesn't actually want to study, she's just here because her boyfriend lives nearby. She doesn't give a fuck and skips cleaning days, leaves dishes everywhere and then gets mad if you point it out. The bad mood influenced two other people to also stop caring.
To top it off the strong-willed girl is now dropping out because of an illness. How do I prevent this from going completely downhill?
>boyfriend breaks up with me- wants space >His dad died recently, his life is a mess, tells me he needs to rebuild himself before he can be a good bf >agree to give him space and keep supporting him plutonically. >I somehow move on after a day or two, feels like I kind of just turned my love for him "off". Realized the most logical thing to do was to focus on myself since he wanted space. >don't know if emotions are buried or just gone after reoccurring disappointment. >1 week later >getting lots of lovey dovey texts and calls from him >reminding him constantly "but exbf, we agreed to work on ourselves and keep things plutonic, remember?" >we stay in touch- start to piece together that he's been talking to and hanging out with some gal pals of his who are all crushing on him. >come to find out that the ACTUAL reason he broke up with me was so that he could talk to these girls without feeling guilty. >doesn't like them but led them on because he likes the attention they give him >I'm kinda pissed because I told him very clearly multiple times that it was ok for him to have those emotions and attractions since I was his first gf, but that he needed to be honest with those girls and with me about how he felt. >still don't understand why he even felt the need to break up with me over this, he literally didn't even do anything with them (he abstains) so it's not like he was just trying to get a quicky or something. >tired of this bullshit, tired of being let down, no longer blindly in love.
I don't understand why he even felt like he needed to break up with me. He wasn't even kind of close to having a relationship with any of these other girls, he is just claiming that he felt too guilty to talk to them while he was "committed to me". He drunkenly made out with one of these girls a few months ago- Maybe it's residual guilt? Why won't he just get this shit out of his system and then decide if he wants to date me later?
What do >Be me >Be with girl for just under a year >We "take a break" because I lived very far from her and we got in a lot of arguments about it >Wasnt best BF, she lived far and drank a lot >She starts talking to this new dude >I find out I have testicular cancer > welp.jpg >Dont wanna go through this on my own >I tell her, she says she will be there for me no matter what >Tells me she does not want a relationship with anyone because of her depression >Shes only 17 and I'm 19 >I tell her how I just got a new job very close to her house full time >Emotional rant from me >She says she'll think about it now >TELLS ME SHE CHEATED ON ME A COUPLE TIMES WITH A DUDE TWICE >I eat my words and try to forgive her
Looking back now, I should leave her. Right? And try to move on to someone else, and let her be a depressed whore. But I love her very much. I know very well that if she gave me a chance I could now provide for her no problem. But she's afraid I'm going to do the same shit. Also, she fucking cheated on me. She cried her eyes out when she told me that she cheated, and I believe her. She says she still loves me more than anything in the world and this girl is a terrible liar.
So recently I have started to have feelings for a woman in a relationship. W.e I shrugged it off and told myself to not bother, and that's what I did until yesterday. She is an co-worker and one day it came up that her and her significant other were fighting...Turns out he is what I would call less than desirable...treats her poorly(yeah I know im being a white knight) I simply told her its unacceptable that hes doing that and just use your judgement. Thing is...I just wanted to say just dump him and go with someone who is going to treat you well(cough cough ..me) but hey this isn't tv and that shit never works. So here I am just being me, admitting I do enjoy her company even at work.To add to this she kinda pokes fun at me and IDK if that is a tell tale sign of affection or the fact that she even said I make fun of people I like..which could always be as a friend or whatnot...heck..what do you Ladies and Gents think? Just don't bother?
