How can I make myself look better if I'm not rich? I know I can't expect some big transformation without dropping a couple of thousand but meanwhile, while I can't afford it, what are things that I can do to look better? And also, do you know any cheap ways to deal with beauty problems? I'm specially looking for ways to improve my skin, I have no acne or anything but it's very dull and discolored.
So my boss ever since I started has been acting like a weirdo, he looks like he's about to cry every time he sees me at work and sort if looks away as if he didn't see me. He says I'm a good worker, I don't know why he looks cut at me every time he sees me, anyone else had this experience?
How to i block or at least dull the pain of a breakup. I love her (non romantic), she loves me(romantic), but I know its going down the shitter and shes not the woman for me. I broke it off 2 days ago. Tonight its hitting me hard as im finishing a 5th and a pack of smokes on my own.
>Be me 3/10 guy meets the perfect chick for me >we fall in love after 5 days never getting away from each other > problem is she lives 2 hours from me > we feel in love over Skype > I never had a girlfriend before > and this is where I fucked up > I showed my friend her nudes > she finds out from friend but she never brings it up > I feel so fucking guilty she had no friends > had many interrupted suicide attempts > I was the only person that she talked to > I became a hermit sitting in front of computer > I help her get her first job she picks up her academics > family hate her kicks her out for weeks at a time > I'm still feeling the guilt > being the gutless person I am I avoid that one >fuckup we both know we know but I always >change the subject > we had our first kiss together > did oral for first time together > ffs she was my first girl hug > I decide to stop running from issue I bring it up > she knew but wasn't sure > she says she hasn't but I'm sure she has lost all >trust in me > this chick brought my grades up from Es and >fails to C and even the odd B > I tell her I'm pathetic sick person for what I did > she says she forgives me I don't think so > I don't forgive myself I honestly would have felt >less guilty if she left me I'm the only person she >trust and I fucked with her head > do I ever regain this trust I lost > I think it will take time but I want to know > what you guys think
So I was sympathizing with someone on a sub, because I followed a link from another sub. The whole idea was that things have gotten worse socially because of particular groups in society trying to make everything appear dangerous. Because I was being sympathetic to someone and saying that our society has gotten worse, I was banned for what hey called brigading.
I decided to test this again, so I went to another reddit and asked them one question "Is one 17 year old sexting another considered pedophilic child porn"? They were talking about how sick a reddit was for saying that drawing underage cartoons was creepy and gross but shouldn't be illegal. This other reddit was going off about it being a safe space for pedos, and I thought that just because its underage doesn't actually make it pedophilia. I asked that question to see if they could explain when it was and wasn't pedophilia, and they banned immediately.
What it seems like to me is that if you visit other subs for a while, and then want to branch out, you're called brigading for wanting to discuss something you found interesting about it.
It'd be like if I started talking in one video game reddit, lets say mechwarrior online, and then someone linked to CS:GO in MW:O, and I and a bunch of other people followed, and then I was interested enough to comment or vote in CS:GO and start participating in that community, and then I get banned from CS:GO for "brigading".
In the other one, it'd be like going to another sub that showed up in r/all and then seeing something you wanted to discuss, and then being banned because you've never visited there before but have visited other reddits.
I just don't get it. Around 60% of the time I actually have a reasonable conversation on the internet, 20% of the time I get trolled, and then 20% of the other time I get accused of trolling or of "brigading" or instigating, etc etc, and get banned or whatever else.
I caught my boyfriend with nudes of his ex girlfriend. He deleted them, and then I caught him trying to recover them from the trash. Why would he want these? He won't give me an actual reason. Just that he doesn't know or that he's stupid. And now he thinks that our relationship is screwed whether he gives me a reason or not, because I won't forgive him, like its my fault.
