So about 3-4 years ago I was picked up on an underage drinking charge when I was out with my friends for the night, I was sent home and was questioned a little bit by the officer before being picked up.

I recently recieved a letter stating that I had not paid my ticket and my license would be suspended for 3 months because of it, I have absolutely 0 choice but to comply.


It turns out my ticket was sent to the post office, then sent to the wrong house, then sent back to the post office, then they just held onto it and never bothered sending it to my home, this resulted in me finally receiving notice I had not paid the ticket over 3 years later.

3 whole years and they didn't bother to send it to me, now I need to deal with a suspended license all because some worthless pile of trash was too lazy to get my ticket to me.

Is there anyone I can call in my state, do I need to meet with a judge or some bullshit?

I live in Pennsylvania, in north philadelphia.

Am I being used? I'm not so good at keeping friends. I seem to attract people to me naturally when I make an effort not to speak to anyone.
This one person I met asked me if I wanted to smoke with him and I did but now he asks me for rides occationally. Though he always gives me gas money. He also asked me to pick breakfast up from a fast food place on the way to work and he paid me for it.
He also wants to work out with me at the gym.

Are these natural things that people do or am I being naive in thinking that the person is a friend?

I should mention that I don't have a single friend and haven't had any real friends for close to 7 years so I don't know how friendships work.

Okay, so lately I've been falling into the idea that maybe I wasn't meant to be happy. Maybe I was just meant to struggle just to get by while everyone else flourished around me. Like I was never meant to find love, purpose, and all that noise.

The idea of being truly happy just seems so foreign to me because I've never felt it. I've had girlfriends before but it always falls apart and they always end up leaving me. I do everything I can to make the girls I date feel loved and appreciated but it's never enough.

So maybe I wasn't meant to find someone. Okay. But even making friends is hard for me. When I meet people it feels like they see some ugly part of my soul that I don't know about and it just turns them off. Women especially. I don't have any female friends. They all just act like they're repulsed by me. I can chat up girls in bars and such, even get phone numbers but it never goes anywhere.

Knowing this, what can I do to make the most of my life? I have a sister that I care about deeply. Should I just devote the rest of my life to making sure she and my nephew are happy?

Tuesday night when my mother in law was in my house dropping some shit off some guys tried to kick down the front door. They stopped because she yelled that she was calling 911. Today my wife came home from her night shift to find the alarm going off and the dispatcher sending the police. They told her that the wind likely blew the french door hard enough to separate the sensor, which is complete bullshit.

I don't know what to do since the cops don't care. Any advice? I wouldn't think someone would be retarded enough to attempt to break into a house multiple times but I guess now I should assume they will try again.

Um, hey guys. Any cigar fags here. im heading to my shop tomorrow and want to try something new. Recommend me some shit. pic related i guess, favorite brand.

>grill I'm trying to gf texts me
>"hey anon, do you have anyone to go to homecoming with?"
>later: "have you had sex back in high school" (I'm first year uni)

I assume she wants the dick so I ask her if she wants to go to homecoming with me.

>says no but she knows someone who'd be interested
>says the name of an ugly ass girl

I mean I've never been liked before because simply I'm not that attractive nor confident. I thought being liked would be a good feeling but by someone like her, not so much.

So what do u guys think my status is with the girl I'm trying to gf? Am I already in the friendzone since she's trying to hook up her friends or what?

So i really want to buy this car that is about 18k from a person, not a dealer. I would assume they would want the money as a whole. I have no knowledge on loans and shit. How would i go about getting a loan? Do i need to meet specific standards before they even consider giving out a loan?

>gf of 3 days says she's hungry
>then says that she's hungry for my soul in a deep, raspy voice
>then says she's hungry for my dick

I haven't been in a relationship in like 3 years. Is this a 'normal' joke or do I have a succubus on my hands? I'm a virgin and I do like her quite a bit, but she says some creepy shit sometimes.

I haven't slept in a couple days.
I tried taking some benadryl (100mg) last night and it just resulted in TERRIBLE Restless leg syndrome and increased heart rate. I took 25mg tonight and I'm not tired enough to fall asleep. If I were to take over 100mg would that make me sleepier or just make me more restless? I also drank four beers and no luck. I can't afford any weed or benzos tonight and I'm our of alcohol. All I have is dryl
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I'm a dude. I want to paint my fingernails black like pic related. How should I go about it?