I was the girl last night whose boyfriend got caught with his exes nudes. He deleted them in front of me and then tried to recover them. I asked him repeatedly for a reason why he wanted them, and he kept saying he was stupid. Now, last night, I gave him an ultimatum that he could either tell me the reasons or move out. He told me the truth finally, and said he wanted to masturbate to them. And that he had been doubting our relationship for a couple of days around that time, and had been wondering if I loved him as much as he loved me. He had a lapse in judgment as to whether he wanted me or his ex. Should I take this as a mistake on his part, and forgive him? Or is this something that is the ending factor in the relationship? It hurts that he ever doubted our relationship, but I feel like I could get over it and forgive him and accept it as a fuck up.
Would it be à good idea to contact one or two if the bullies that, from 6 to 16 (23 now) massively annoyed me and destroyed me before I could build my own personality ? Especially that girl that tried to trap me by pretending wanting to go out with me (in order to let me being hurt emotionally and physically by her friends that would have had fin hiting me if I had said yes) ? That story was à réal shock and I now have self esteem, virginity and love issues
I'd like to talk to them or only her, seing the reaction, maybe feeling better with good excuses, or maybe with a good reason to have vengence if no.
Not enough friends to ask to, So I ask to random unknown people on the internet.
Was sitting in class today during a mathematics lecture and just started crying. Not loudly, but my face god red hot, lump in throat, eyes watering up, felt really sad. And this has happened before.
Part of me is excited about going on my first date with a girl in years.
The retarded neckbeard/cheapass part of me is pissed that I'm paying for her meal and that shes not interested just using me for free food.
how do I enjoy myself on this date /adv/? I'm not necessarily nervous, more just the fact that I've been on such a fucking dry spell for anything regarding vaginas and I lost my "mojo" so to speak
Does anyone here has any advice on how to communicate with normies? My mother is starting to get worried about my social life. When i get into a conversation i usually don0t have anything to talk about and sometimes i get really nervous.
So I dropped out of (UK) college recently. I don't really have any good qualifications - I had Cs at AS Level and dropped out of BTEC Business Studies. I loathed the subjects I did for AS and I couldn't stand the BTEC.
I'm not really sure where to go from here. I don't really want to get a job right now, but I have to so I'm not a drain on my family. Unfortunately, the only vacancies open to me are customer service or retail positions, and I don't like working in teams and hate working with the public. I would probably have to leave after a short period of time since I just find being that social is too inherently stressful.
I work much better on my own, but I don't know how long it will take for a solitary-type job to open up near me. I can't travel very far since I don't drive (it's way too difficult for me and I'm afraid of injuring or killing someone by accident), and I don't mind walking, but I know this limits my options even further.
I kind of want to kill myself because of this. Not because I'm depressed or anything, but...I don't like being a leech on my parents' finances, and I'm not sure if I can move on to being a successful adult. I know a lot of people would miss me, but I don't want them to pay to support me for so long. Does anyone have any advice?
