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NEET and Shut-In Advice Thread (Version 116)

Anonymous Tue 20 Oct 2015 21:47:37 No.16373005 View Reply Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387075 >>16388652 >>16404643 >>16406619

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Anonymous Tue 20 Oct 2015 21:50:23 No.16373017 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16373495

Where would I meet somewhat attractive, boring bookish/nerdy/geeky girls in London?

Or are all the (attractive) homebodies taken?

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 20 Oct 2015 22:04:04 No.16373053 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16373072 >>16373495 >>16402909

Ways to deal with depression? the meds just made it worse

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 20 Oct 2015 22:11:02 No.16373066 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16373072

Get a pet like a dog or cat

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 20 Oct 2015 22:13:12 No.16373072 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16400777

>>16373066
Assuming you're replying to >>16373053, I already have a dog, but it's not enough.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 20 Oct 2015 22:22:13 No.16373095 Report Delete

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Damn maths are hard lads.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 20 Oct 2015 22:34:02 No.16373121 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16373140 >>16373495 >>16373572 >>16374298 >>16381869 >>16400783

So what should I focus on first? College, getting a job, or driver's license?

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 20 Oct 2015 22:40:18 No.16373140 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16374298

>>16373121
License will help with getting a job

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 20 Oct 2015 22:55:41 No.16373194 Report Delete

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Neil Young's life sounds frighteningly appealing to me.

A quiet cottage, a nice pet, and a home studio to keep yourself busy.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 00:35:58 No.16373495 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16373544 >>16378913

>>16373017
you are looking @ this in the wrong way anon, if they are a hombody they are more then likely to keep to themselves and when they do venture into the realm of normality they take a mate whom is an alpha and not a beta who wishes to stay home. As much as girls like to act all nerdy and introverted they are just looking/waiting on a chad, much how all guys want 8+/10 but unlike females we will almost always settle for a 5+/10.
>>16373053
set yourself some short term achievable goals, once they are achieved BAM! whack it up a notch with some long to intermediate term goal, always setting up something new or just one really hard goal so you are never rudderless for long..
>>16373121
job as long as it's not a fry cook, if thats all you can get, then collage or license for delivery work.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 00:55:41 No.16373544 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16373914

>>16373495
I dont really have any goals

Anonymous

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Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 00:57:03 No.16373551 Report Delete

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I have been watching my usage via a network monitor, and I've used a little under 3.1GiB. Cell carrier says otherwise, and I don't have any alternatives until the gubment decides to give me money.

If they don't in about six weeks, that's it for me. I won't have any internet access again at this address, ever. No money to move, no hope.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 01:02:48 No.16373572 Report Delete

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>>16373121
Driver's license is easy, quick, and cheap, so that first.

Will your family support you and house you through college? If so, do it now. Any job you get now will be shitty and miserable and working through it will just postpone the point at which you go to college and get a job you can actually stand.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 02:39:05 No.16373806 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16374417 >>16375356

>no back to the future edittion
Hey today is my birthday and that should be important to you, yes you because you are not allowed to be moody on someone's birthday
I got a wacom and I'm having dinner with my family at a stakehouse

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 03:01:59 No.16373868 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16374417 >>16374422

I feel like I'm wasting my life.

I want to live on some land having fun and basically running a homestead. Growing good, building shit. Having a family.

But I don't know what career to choose. I'm 22 and I left school when I was 17. I don't know what to do. I'm depressed. Should I go to uni? What if after the 3 year course it hasn't helped and is just debt? But what else can I do? What if I buy the land but can't live on it because there are no jobs in the area? Or if the degree I chose has doesn't help with anything buy city jobs. How would I make money? I don't know what to do. So confused.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 03:23:39 No.16373914 Report Delete

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>>16373544
ill set you a goal!
do 10 pushups each day for two weeks!

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 03:25:04 No.16373916 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16374255 >>16374300

I'm a NEET who does nothing but play vidya, watch anime, and talk to people online. I recently discovered I really enjoy helping people with their problems, whether it be advice or just being a friend when they need one. However it's really difficult for me to MAKE friends online or no, halfway because I'm socially retarded and the other half being that I strongly dislike the seemingly endless cycle of "hey how's it going good you good okay bye" I seem to go through, but that's probably my own autistic fault.

My question is, what should I be doing to seek out and make meaningful relationships with people, and is it wrong/selfish to want to be friends and help people because it makes me feel good?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 06:40:57 No.16374255 Report Delete

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>>16373916
>what should I be doing to seek out and make meaningful relationships with people?
focus on activities/events/subjects you yourself value, also note that not focusing on these things can also net you friends, opposites attracting as it were.
> is it wrong/selfish to want to be friends and help people because it makes me feel good?
if it is a one sided or unbalanced friendship then yes, if not then no.

Sage

Sage Wed 21 Oct 2015 07:16:21 No.16374298 Report Delete

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>>16373140
>>16373121
If you really want to go to college, then college, but you have to REALLY want it. You can always work on your license over the summer.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 07:17:38 No.16374300 Report Delete

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>>16373916
Making friends online is way harder than real life, if you want friends go outside

Sage

Sage Wed 21 Oct 2015 08:15:01 No.16374417 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16374422

>>16373806
>No "Where's My Flying Car and Hoverboard Edition"

>>16373868
I want to live on some land having fun and basically running a homestead. Growing good, building shit. Having a family.

But I don't know what career to choose. I'm 22 and I left school when I was 17. I don't know what to do. I'm depressed. Should I go to uni? What if after the 3 year course it hasn't helped and is just debt? But what else can I do? What if I buy the land but can't live on it because there are no jobs in the area?
Sounds like agriculture or one of the natural sciences would interest you. Scientists don't have to reside in big cities near brand name schools anymore, thanks to the internet. College is always a risk though. There are no guarantees.

Sage

Sage Wed 21 Oct 2015 08:16:50 No.16374422 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16373868
>>16374417
Clarity
>>But I don't know what career to choose. I'm 22 and I left school when I was 17. I don't know what to do. I'm depressed. Should I go to uni? What if after the 3 year course it hasn't helped and is just debt? But what else can I do? What if I buy the land but can't live on it because there are no jobs in the area?
Sounds like agriculture or one of the natural sciences would interest you. Scientists don't have to reside in big cities near brand name schools anymore, thanks to the internet. College is always a risk though. There are no guarantees.

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Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 08:55:06 No.16374481 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16374560 >>16375368

I am getting real fucking tired of seeing my therapist.

I've been seeing him for almost a year and shit still hasn't changed. He's not that helpful that my mom doesn't listen to him.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 09:32:13 No.16374560 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16375793

>>16374481
You have to change, if therapy doesn't work its most likely your fault

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 14:06:35 No.16375356 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16373806
Birthday bump

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 14:10:40 No.16375368 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16375793

>>16374481

your therapist can't work unless you let them.

also, if you care what your mom thinks regarding your therapist, you're clearly too immature to be fixed.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 14:16:06 No.16375387 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16375447 >>16375466 >>16375793 >>16375842 >>16408159

is it possible to get into a relationship (I'm a hetero male) while being a NEET (low power-level)? or is such a thing restricted to animu&mango fantasy land?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 14:32:48 No.16375447 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16375450

>>16375387
doubtful

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 14:33:42 No.16375450 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16375447
ok, it's not like i did not already knew anyways
thanks

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 14:38:13 No.16375466 Report Delete

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>>16375387
my sister had a BF who had no job or schooling, paid for everything
[spoiler:lit] then she came out of the closet so in all likelyhood he was her beard and she was just paying him off [/spoiler:lit]

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 16:11:04 No.16375793 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16375851

>>16375368
>>16374560
not that anon but:
This is utter horse shit!
>there are not bad therapists
>you might have a mental illness that said therapist is not equipped to deal with
>your mental illness may impair you from even being able to actually benefit from convention therapies
>>16375387
im sure you could get a male who would pretend to be a female for erp

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 16:25:10 No.16375842 Report Delete

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>>16375387
You shouldn't. You should first care about yourself.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 16:29:38 No.16375851 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16376117

>>16375793
I says most likely you retard. Yes there is a 1% chance, if you want to cling to it instead of admitting that it's almost without a do it your fault be my guess but don't ask for advice because you don't want it, hell don't even. Bother showing up to therapy, what's the point ?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 17:46:04 No.16376117 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16376248 >>16380309

>>16375851
as i stated before i'm not that anon...also your lingual communication skills are abhorrent, that or your are clinically defined as downsyndromed. Regardless i would still attempt to point out that you stated that there is a 1% chance...a 1% chance of what ? my fault for what ? so your saying that it's not worth trying ? SOMEONE PLEASE SEND HELP!

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 18:24:30 No.16376248 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16376117
>I'm not Him
Sure thing I'm 100% convinced

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 21:14:16 No.16376879 Report Delete

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Why go out in public when I can set myself on fire and feel the same way

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 21 Oct 2015 22:50:53 No.16377243 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16378239 >>16404923

So how do you deal with the fact that you're ugly as a Sin?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 05:40:42 No.16378239 Report Delete

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>>16377243
i honestly don't have to because im not, how do you deal with the feel ?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 09:30:12 No.16378514 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16378563

Did any of you ever stop to consider just how great your life could be if you took the time to solve your problems and tryed to make something of yourselves?
You should take the time to think about this

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 09:57:46 No.16378563 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16378576

>>16378514
I'd prefer to do it on my terms
I want to gather up anons with tech skills or the potential to learn tech skills and form a self sustaining commune
problem is I can't convince other anons to do this, the only type of person that can has to be charismatic
and if someone is charismatic and has the ability to influence other people its unlikely they are the kind of people here and probably has ulterior motives
its a catch 22.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 10:11:22 No.16378576 Report Delete

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>>16378563
Being charismatic is not hard tho just speak your mind and don't get mad.
I have similar dreams but art related

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 10:13:34 No.16378579 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16378799 >>16400793

>Slowly getting used to not spaghettying everywhere when talking to strangers
>Make small talk with cashier
>"So, what is it that you do"
>Start panicking
What are you meant to say to that? I told him I was a studet, because I felt like that would be better than saying I'm a useless piece of shit, but I don't want to really lie to everyone.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 10:58:11 No.16378627 Report Delete

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Here's the issue
>circadian rhythm is very skewed (fall asleep 3:30 am, wake up at noon)
>usually enough energy to eat breakfast at 3 pm
>don't get anything done through the day, barely enjoy csgo for one hour with irl friends

Going to lectures is optional, but I do want to get up every morning and go to campus. If I solve one math problem that day, it would be more than I already have done this semester. Socializing isn't the problem here.
It's just so comfy to lie in the bed dreaming and no one is there to stop me.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 12:26:09 No.16378799 Report Delete

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>>16378579
there are useless piece of shit that are not neets, so really you could say you are between jobs, currently unemployed, looking for a job, looking to get into an Uni or something
even if it is a lie (for the time being, while you pick your shit together), as long as it not some outrageous lie like "I'm a business owner in the East Coast" or "Head of Church"

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 13:25:32 No.16378913 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16379212

>>16373495
We still doing this beta/alpha chad shit? You know it doesn't even work with the species it was based on.

>As much as girls like to act all nerdy and introverted they are just looking/waiting on a chad, much how all guys want 8+/10 but unlike females we will almost always settle for a 5+/10.

>but unlike females we will almost always settle for a 5+/10.

You're kidding right? Most couples I see are fairly matched and the only slanted ones are hot girl and not-so-hot guy.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 15:01:24 No.16379124 Report Delete

Quoted By:

urgh i feel so stuck

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 15:12:33 No.16379155 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16380224

I get really anxious just by sitting in my room and have a few medical problems like bruxism as a result and I don't know how to stop.

I just always feel mentally unstable.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 15:31:27 No.16379212 Report Delete

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>>16378913
>scoring is relative to the person
people value different things anon, im sorry to break it to you.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 16:29:17 No.16379367 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16379557

So a few weeks ago I started sweating constantly, especially in my sleep. Because I'm always sweating I constantly smell and I'm constantly thirsty, I can't sleep because I feel like I suffocate too. Is best life causing this?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 17:28:33 No.16379557 Report Delete

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>>16379367
Neet life
Fucking autocorrect

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 17:32:09 No.16379572 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16379581 >>16379588

How can you work online?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 17:34:45 No.16379581 Report Delete

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>>16379572
You need coding, media, music,art or other kinds of knowledge

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 17:37:08 No.16379588 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16380639

>>16379572
Here's a guide I found on /biz/ (which seems to have been found on reddit)

http://pastebin.com/wKGxMspf

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 21:21:36 No.16380224 Report Delete

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>>16379155
You see the dentist. They'll make a special mouthguard for you to protect your teeth.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 21:59:39 No.16380309 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16376117
>>SOMEONE PLEASE SEND HELP!
Help is not coming.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 23:19:00 No.16380568 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16380627 >>16381764 >>16400806

anyone leave the house today? how was it? were there cute girls?

Pegasus !!4nagLPzwxlE

Pegasus !!4nagLPzwxlE Thu 22 Oct 2015 23:29:50 No.16380627 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16384651

>>16380568
yeah they were mirin

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 22 Oct 2015 23:32:05 No.16380639 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381284 >>16381483

>>16379588
Not him but how reliable is this stuff? I'm still skeptical on actually being able to make money like that.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 03:38:48 No.16381266 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381503 >>16384199

I want to go outside and also get fit, is running aimless a good idea,or I should start walking then running?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 03:48:32 No.16381284 Report Delete

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>>16380639
It all checks out, at least the ones I've personally signed up for (clickworker, fusioncash, clixsense). Though I signed up for them long before this guide came along.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 05:24:47 No.16381483 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381993

>>16380639
mTurk is a trap, as it's more often than not equivalent to slave labour. You'll have one hell of a time trying to get a decent wage out of it, especially if you can't pass quite a few of the tests for the HITs that pay out higher.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 05:35:53 No.16381503 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16382618

>>16381266
You should probably start with walking if you are overweight or haven't been very active in a while.
Look up the couch to 5k plan. If you're obese you need to lose weight before you even attempt to run or you're going to fuck up your knees and ankles.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 06:41:17 No.16381607 Report Delete

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fuck it , i'm joining the military , time to start up that diet again and start getting fit, im putting this here maybe it being in writing will make it more real

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 08:35:13 No.16381763 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381782

My mom asked me if I wanted to go see the new Star Wars movie with her when it comes out. I was surprised, I thought she'd go see it with her so.

I found out there's a marathon viewing of the saga by my friend. Except the new one would be 3D, ugh. She's never seen the Original Trilogy, and I've been wanting to introduce her to it for a long time, but logistics have made it extremely difficult...even when we were together.

So I asked her and she was interested. Then I realized the marathon is on a workday, and we have a blackout period that week, so we can't go. Sure, we could see it later, but if she hasn't seen the OT, how can we geek out on this afterwards?

Just reminds me how alone I am, that I have to experience the first Star Wars sequel with only my mother, instead of friends or someone I'm in a romantic relationship with. u_u

TL,DR
I await the new trilogy with cautious optimism, but dammit, I want some friends or a girlfriend to experience it with, not my mother! I'm getting too old for this.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 08:35:22 No.16381764 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16384651

>>16380568
>the beautiful people

They're always there, it's one of the subtle effects of gentrification. I only really noticed when I realised the ticket inspectors and station attendants weren't the usual poor immigrants and instead were buff girls.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 08:43:53 No.16381777 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16384651

I have slept the last 5 years away

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 08:48:10 No.16381782 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381794 >>16381862

>>16381763
I know of know that feeling. Except all my friends are just busy/gone.
So I only have my mom to hang out with the majority of the time.
Not that that's bad, but it gets to be a bit of a bummer not having anyone to talk to who is actually interested in my hobbies.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 09:03:10 No.16381794 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381806 >>16381810 >>16381862

>>16381782
There are tons of people on the Internet that want to talk about all the stuff you like all of the time. It's great you should try it sometime.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 09:06:19 No.16381806 Report Delete

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>>16381794
>It's great
s-shure

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 09:08:00 No.16381810 Report Delete

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>>16381794
For some reason I've developed a phobia of sorts to meeting new people.
Most of my current friends forced themselves on me. I do need to try that though

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 09:10:23 No.16381815 Report Delete

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>>16381809
?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 09:42:32 No.16381855 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381906

Where did everything go so wrong?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 09:53:07 No.16381862 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381887

>>16381782
Last movie I saw in the theater was Skyfall...and that was with my mother! I saw the prequels with her, but that was long ago. This shouldn't still be happening without me having other options, as well. Not that I wouldn't see it with my mom, but you know.

>>16381794
The internet isn't the same as a face-to-face conversation. There's an energy there when you connect with another human being that doesn't get transmitted through 1s and 0s.

I wish it wasn't so, but then there'd be even less incentive for interacting in meatspace.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 09:57:07 No.16381869 Report Delete

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>>16373121
Job, always a job.
Job makes you afford to eat, to live, have a roof over your head, to be hygienic. These are the most necessary and primary aspects of your life. Even if it's McDonalds, get a job first. The job will also make you help finance college and a driver's license. Try to prevent going into debt.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 10:06:35 No.16381887 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381902 >>16382817

>>16381862
Of course it's not the same. It's infinitely better. It has all of the benefits of being with people (exchanging thoughts) and none of the drawbacks (everything outside is basically terrible.)

>an energy

Are you on drugs.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 10:14:25 No.16381902 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381915

>>16381887
>all the benefits of being with people
>exchanging thoughts
Lol you are an idiot that isnt the only benefit of interacting with other people

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 10:17:52 No.16381906 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381918 >>16382817

>>16381855
Most likely a combination of parents and society. And later on your own fault.

In my case;
Last born of siblings, didn't get much attention because did well in school whilst my siblings were not doing so well. It was always a case of; "She doesn't need us to tell her to do homework, she does that all on her own" but what I wanted was the one hour a day my other siblings got with my parents. (I don't blame them though, I would've probably done the same if my kids were falling behind on school work). Although I do believe you should give your children somewhat equal of your time – even if they do not "need" it.

But in the end I only got attention from teachers because I did well in school, acquire performance anxiety which lead to night terror which always made me tired. Began eating a lot out of comfort, no one told me I should cut back. Became fat. Be 12 and get bullied because fat chick. Become introverted; tell siblings, parents, teachers and the school physician I want to loose weight. "Ah, but you are perfect as you are. I don't look at you and see that you are fat. That's silly." Now 22 and trying to reverse the curse society and parents couldn't do for me when I was 12 even after rising the issue on my own. And now these fucking youtube /fit/ persons who specifically tells you it's your fault if you are fat. I do get it, there is nothing that justify a grown up to stay fat if they do not want to on their own will but you can't tell a 12 year old that "it's your fault you're fat" when society and parents fucks one over/you can't buy your own food/sport teams benches you because you are bad at it because you are too fat.

I feel like this became a rant and apologize for your time.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 10:25:20 No.16381915 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381922

>>16381902
It is the only worthwhile one.

Unless you want to touch them, or whatever.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 10:27:29 No.16381918 Report Delete

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>>16381906
Nah I get it. I have been obese since I was 8 years old. Parents never gave much of a shit about me either (obviously) and the doctors told me that I would grow and I had to keep my weight rather than loose it with is retarded. It pisses me off that people want me to loose weight now that I'm 23 when they gave no fucks when I was growing up so I guess I revenge eat in some ways, I also can't see how my life could be better if I wasn't so fat. Well I could get a job maybe but at this point I don't know if I want to engage in the real world or get further away from it
Does this seem familiar to you?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 10:29:46 No.16381922 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381937

>>16381915
How about enjoying their company
>but I can do that online
No you can't because you are not in their company, you just don't know better wich is sad but you don't get a free pass on it

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 10:38:03 No.16381937 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381946

>>16381922
That's a rather vague concept. How do you just passively enjoy company?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 10:41:30 No.16381946 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16381960 >>16382817

>>16381937
The same way you enjoy the sun in your skin. It just feels good, its also a basic human need too

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 10:47:28 No.16381960 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16382070 >>16382080 >>16382767 >>16384651

>>16381946
The sun is just heat, there's nothing special about the sun with regards to feeling good. I have a space heater that accomplishes the same thing and it doesn't slowly give me cancer.

I don't absorb friendship rays from my company. You still haven't explained what "enjoying company" really means. If you don't do anything with your company, why not just store a bunch of mannequins around your house?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 11:07:44 No.16381993 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16382817

>>16381483
What if I don't plan on living off it, and just use it as a bit of money until i get settled into other stuff?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 11:52:15 No.16382070 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16382839

>>16381960
Look dude, I'm aware that people here have autism so it might be hard to understand but its even harder to explain something to a mentally challenged person so bare with me the sun isn't just heat, it has vitamin D that is absorbed through the skin. When you are in contact with other people in real life there are a lot of psychological factors in play and many needs being covered. I realise the mentally impared may have difficulty feeling this way but the need is still there

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 11:57:32 No.16382080 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16381960
Also you do have a need to be touched

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 15:08:42 No.16382618 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16384651

>>16381503
Thanks for the tips, I'm not obese, but I still fat, 200lbs and I'm 6'3, I will start walking then since I haven't done shit in years.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 16:02:16 No.16382758 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16384651

>tfw headache for no reason again

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 16:04:34 No.16382767 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16381960
>fuck the sun

Reminds of when I did major overtime in my shit-tier job in the winter and didn't see the sun for a whole month. Felt like shit for the last 2 weeks. Felt like it was one long night.

Felt even more shit when I looked at the paycheck. £1400 after tax. 210+ hours for a fucking pittance.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 16:16:51 No.16382817 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16381887
>Are you on drugs.
Does caffeine count? Otherwise, I've never done drugs.

>>16381906

It's OK, sometimes you just need to let things out. Weight is a very sensitive issue to bring up with girls though. Seems like there's no right answer. Damned if you do, and as you've shown, damned if you don't.

>>16381946
>I don't absorb friendship rays from my company. You still haven't explained what "enjoying company" really means.
It means being around others and enjoying interacting with them.

>>16381993
That's actually probably a better idea: save it up and invest it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 16:20:07 No.16382839 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16382843

>>16382070
>the sun isn't just heat, it has vitamin D that is absorbed through the skin.
Not exactly, UV rays make our bodies synthesize vitamin D. The sun doesn't emit vitamin D, which is what your phrasing implies.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 16:21:30 No.16382843 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16384199

>>16382839
Can you feel the synthesis?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 17:27:17 No.16383056 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16385882

>poke around for a bit
>some of the irc regulars are gone
did they died?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 21:33:40 No.16384037 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16400674

>no internet connection, forced to use mobile connection
>can't watch the few terrible television series I picked up for the season
>seen everything I have stored locally 3-4 times over
>can't even afford to drink myself into a stupor

Truckerfag !!+KSIm6sOufE

Truckerfag !!+KSIm6sOufE Fri 23 Oct 2015 22:14:12 No.16384199 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16382843
The radiation is more noticeable.

>>16381266
Definitely start with walking for a few weeks, then mix in some jogging before you even consider running. You need to compress your leg bones before you put them under that kind of pressure. I got impatient and started running after a week. I broke my leg in the first 20 miles.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 22:15:42 No.16384206 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16384428 >>16384432

Any one going to comic con today?

First time going, but kinda feel like I'm going to be the only socially awkward twat there with geek chic being in vogue.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 23:13:15 No.16384428 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387364

>>16384206
where?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 23 Oct 2015 23:13:37 No.16384432 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387364

>>16384206
London?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 00:06:20 No.16384651 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387364

>>16380627
;)
>>16381764
tell me about these "buff" girls, is it a sexy kinda buff?
>>16381777
...a-at least y-you got trips!
>>16382758
maybe it's all the screen staring?
>>16381960
>vit d deficiency
>low serotonin
>>16382618
scoobysworkshop.com/cardio/

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 09:47:33 No.16385882 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16383056

They're in a better place now.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 15:56:30 No.16386944 Report Delete

Quoted By:

Each time a meet general thread dies an angel gets his wings

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 16:33:00 No.16387075 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387080 >>16389042

>>16373005
Somehow every person i have met irl and who watches anime has really shit tasteಥ_ಥ
"Well im sorry [insert name] but i really dont care about your endless talk about naruto/any other too long anime"

Are there even any good long ones?
I've watched ~400 different anime but found none

Halp

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Truckerfag !!+KSIm6sOufE Sat 24 Oct 2015 16:34:53 No.16387080 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16389042

>>16387075
>good
>long
Pick one.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:00:06 No.16387364 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16389042

>>16384432
>>16384428
Yeah, just came back from there. It was kinda meh to be honest, but I'm not sure what I was expecting though.

Stalls of various geek tat, some game demos and people in cosplay, eh. Oddly there didn't seem to be that many weirdos. Was kinda envious at the groups of socially adjusted geeks, felt like I was really cheated with set of friends and people I had way back in school.

>>16384651
>tell me about these "buff" girls, is it a sexy kinda buff?
Pretty much, not sure what's to tell, just they seem to be replacing key workers with more aesthetically pleasing people in areas of gentrification. I thought it was just my imagination at first, till I realised I hadn't seen any immigrant workers at certain stations, you know the ones that usually appear in the local papers about getting their head kicked in by yoots.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 21:04:53 No.16387880 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16389042

Bump from oblivion.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 00:12:57 No.16388592 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16389042

I went outside with my family.

It was fun to be at the mall, it was pretty empty and the food was good. I was really glad it was empty.

Watched anime with my brother when we came back and tried to make decisions about the next synths I want to buy.

It feels very odd to find myself so sad when there is so much to be grateful for.

I wish she felt I was enough and didn't stray. I was much happier.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 00:29:43 No.16388652 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16373005
I'm not sure I can do it anymore you guys. I wake up, i go to work, i come home, i swallow painkillers to deal with the pain from the tears in my arm and leg and its just driving me insane why did i ever try to better myself? Even before i gave up on life all i did was fail and now that im trying again i just feel nothing but bitterness and frustration at myself for being such a sad excuse for a living creature i mean fuck if i didnt live in the modern era i could of been killed off and not had to deal with existing but im stuck suffering on while being to much of a coward to pull the trigger when i stick the gun in my mouth.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 02:25:02 No.16389042 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16389948

>>16387075
Long anime are full of filler and recap episodes, like DBZ. Dragon Ball suffers from the same thing, but it's not as bad, and actually a funny charming show.
>>16387080
I'd take both, from you big boy ;) (no homo)
>>16387364
Well, it kinda makes sense doesn't it? Hot fit girls are less likely to get beaten up than foreign brown people, or am I wrong?
>>16387880
it's thankless work, so thank you
>>16388592
It sucks when someone you trust betrays that trust. The feels are understandable anon, hopefully you're able to move on in time and find someone new.
>>16388592
What's the story behind your arm and leg? What kind of painkillers? I fail lots too. Iktf, but the way I see it is, I'm guaranteed to die, I might as well not hurry that date up, there's always a plan b, c, d, e, etc. to be found

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 10:09:32 No.16389948 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16389042
>Well, it kinda makes sense doesn't it? Hot fit girls are less likely to get beaten up than foreign brown people, or am I wrong?

It's more kinda like a side effect of gentrification, now that the area is safer they have more people to choose from other than the desperate immigrants and locals.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 10:38:59 No.16390004 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16392842

I've been a shut in NEET for at least a decade, I'm now in my late 20s, and this entire time I've been stuck in a cycle of being too broke to seek professional help for my depression and social anxiety yet too depressed and anxious to motivate myself to push harder at my "self employment" which doesn't make me nearly enough to live completely independently. I still live with my family and I buy my own groceries and gas (whenever I actually have access to a car) but I hate being a sponge and that I let myself get into this mess. I'm also tired of trying and failing so many times to break away from this family.

But enough about me. Are pet and house sitting a lucrative business for somebody like me who's estranged from society and how do I even break into the market when I have no references and all of my friends have already moved far away?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 10:47:15 No.16390036 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16390163 >>16390795 >>16394537

>had MRI because in medical studies
>brain shrinking faster than it should
>also benign brain tumor

I've had a couple of weeks to live with this. So it's time to Name the Tumor. Any ideas? He's (yeah, it's a guy) living in Broca's area, 5x7mm, near the surface. He's about 8 years old.

Ideas? I need to have some fun with this.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 11:41:56 No.16390163 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16390036
That's some real bad news I guess.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 15:39:27 No.16390795 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16390036
you ok?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 19:21:29 No.16391609 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16391628 >>16392842

Bump.
How did you spend your weekends? I had a friend visit me and we played the wolf among us, I visited my mom too and that's it pretty much

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 19:25:25 No.16391628 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16392842

>>16391609
Alone in my room, talking over skype to an online friend or two

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 19:28:10 No.16391642 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16391733 >>16392546

I have been a hikki for the past year and a half. Tomorrow I start my first day at my job, waiting at Pizza Hut. I honestly feel like I want to smash my brains out onto a brick wall. How do I get over this?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 19:54:51 No.16391733 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16391642
i know that feel bruh. you just have to get though it. it's going to suck but don't let it get to you.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 23:36:40 No.16392509 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16392842

It feels odd seeing all those people here in their early 20s. I am 29 now.. been a neet for 3 years.

My problem? I randomly imagine bad scenarios happening to people around me, or to myself. I imagine my mum drowning, or getting stabbed and I just see her eyes whilst shes in pain and dying, and I am helpless... I get so depressed about it and die inside in real life because of something I imagined in my head.

I imagine certain people verbally abusing me, or imagine them hurting me, I get so angry and frustrated in real life cos of something I totally imagined, in my head.

SSOO many other examples I can bring, but these things are constant and happen on a daily basis more than once. Sometimes it brings me to tears, or sometimes into burst of anger (all kept inside)

This pretty much fucked me up... so many therapists and shit and nothing works. It has been linked to anxiety and I was diagnosed with sever anxiety too and mild OCD.

This is no excuse for being a NEET I don't think but I cannot imagine my self living a normal life with a mind like that. If I didn't believe in God I would have taken my life SOOO long ago. no question about it. But I do not want to go to hell, so I will suffer now and hopefully get rewarded somewhere else.

I am not asking for advice, just pointing out how young you all are. NEET life is fun in the first few months, but after that you will fall into a pit of darkness. depression/anxiety/hatred if your self and humans in general.

Sorry about any typos...etc it is 3:30 am here in the UK and I am tired.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 23:48:14 No.16392546 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16392591

>>16391642
How'd you land that job?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 00:02:46 No.16392591 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16402678

>>16392546
not him but waiting tables at a pizza hut doesnt seem like a hard job to land. just ask and apply for one.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 00:46:16 No.16392710 Report Delete

Quoted By:

My 4 months of Neetdom are coming to an end. Tomorrow I start my next shitty little job. I went in to a temp work agency and they landed me a job instantly for 12 bucks an hour. Apparently its physical labor in a warehouse and I'll be lifting 50lbs all day every day.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 01:45:26 No.16392842 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16391609
Pretty much this >>16391628
>>16392509
I'm almost 25, I'm not trying to be mean, but winding up in you position scares me the most. To some degree, I know what you mean.
>>16390004
Try dish washing at a small mom and pop restaurant, nothing too big or fast. You shouldn't need references and with luck, the owners will be nice.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 02:06:46 No.16392896 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16392934 >>16393451

Right now I feel like I'm at a point where I'm too far to quit but there is so much ahead of me that it's daunting.

I'm almost 30. I was never technically a proper neet, but I have very much been a late bloomer. I didn't have a job until I was 20 and it was a shit retail gig that I worked at for almost 8 years. I never had any relationships, I never took care of myself, and I never got a car or license. I got a new, much better job that I'm enjoying, and I started going to the gym and have made a lot of progress (though I eat like crap and want to change that) But I still don't have a car or license, I'm still single, and while I have quite a few friends, I don't have any truly close ones.

I'm just not sure where to go from here. I'm not even sure where I'd go for driving lessons at my age, and never having dating/relationship experience at my age I also feel puts me at a point of no return.

Is there a way to keep progressing or have I hit the wall?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 02:27:58 No.16392934 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16392896
There should be a drivers ed program you can sign up for, where I am it's called young drivers, I'm 25 and I know your feels in this regard. It's kinda shameful to for someone my age to go to something like that, I also don't have the money for it though.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 02:32:57 No.16392950 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394546 >>16395824 >>16396296

I want to live the NEET lifestyle, what kind of things should I secure so I can live the dream?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 09:53:31 No.16393451 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16392896
>I'm not even sure where I'd go for driving lessons at my age

That should be pretty easy to solve, check the internet or your local papers or even just take the phone number of a passing driving instructor car. Just make you that you pick an instructor you're comfortable with and actually knows how to teach.

>never having dating/relationship experience at my age I also feel puts me at a point of no return.

That I can't help you with.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 13:27:57 No.16393946 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394325

Are there any places hiring right now that ideally are only hiring for graveyard shifts?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 15:43:20 No.16394325 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16393946
check your local job bank? I don't know why you'd think a bunch of strangers mostly from all over the anglo-sphere would know if anyone near you would be hiring

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 16:47:01 No.16394537 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16390036
Grim Reaper

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 16:48:55 No.16394546 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16395824

>>16392950
Someone who is willing to pay for your expenses

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 17:12:18 No.16394636 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394737

Just my fucking luck that when I finally was feeling up to having a real job instead of whatever random shit esp me being nearly 30, and getting some actual professional help with it at a job finding place for people like me that even that's taking long as hell. Makes me feel like such a fucking slowpoke. At least this taking long instead of me trying on my own doesn't make me look as lazy right? Still I do actually want to work now... really even if mim wage and part time as long as I'm not miserable and feel I can do it I really don't care. Just wish the process would be faster ya know?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 17:40:28 No.16394737 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16398421

>>16394636
The world won't wait for you

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 17:46:44 No.16394757 Report Delete

Quoted By:

So apparently I can't have my surgery until I work on my issues. They are sending me to a new clinic where they will treat me for a while until they say I'm ready. Among the causes is that I seclude myself and I fail to restrict my diet, my relationship with my family and an unespesific personality disorder. I guess this means one more year until I get it

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 19:05:04 No.16394985 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394992

How long does a really bad flu last for?

It started on Sunday morning, and it's 11pm on Monday now, and it's still really really bad. I can't play video games, and I can't watch anything without sniffling and wiping my eyes and nose for minutes on end. This feels horrible.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 19:08:32 No.16394992 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16395000

>>16394985
I've only had the flu once, try to drink some juice and it should get better each day

Granted mine was stomach flu

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 19:11:36 No.16395000 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16396288

>>16394992
I haven't had a flu this bad in a long time. I'm not even sure it's a flu. I'm blinking hard while writing this, and ruining my jumper wiping my nose.

I don't own any juice. I don't want to go outside to get some like this.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 20:24:25 No.16395275 Report Delete

Quoted By:

https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-important-but-uncomfortable-truths-that-many-people-learn-when-transitioning-into-adulthood

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 20:26:55 No.16395288 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16395302

How can I stop wasting my time and find something thats worth working hard for?

I done nothing but play mobages and Kancolle for the last six months, there must be something more exciting and productive for me out there.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 20:30:38 No.16395302 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16395288
Go out and experience the world, not that you will. You will keep playing games and blame everything elseike a cbild

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 22:49:32 No.16395824 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16394546
>>16392950
>I want to live the NEET lifestyle, what kind of things should I secure so I can live the dream?
>Someone who is willing to pay for your expenses
Someone who is willing to pay for your expenses that you can exploit
FTFY

Yeah...like my mom's so.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 00:49:58 No.16396288 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16397470

>>16395000
nausea? vomiting? fever?

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 00:51:51 No.16396296 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16392950
>the dream
More like nightmare. Parasites are the lowest form of life, and after 2 years of being a NEET, I know this to be true.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 01:22:44 No.16396391 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16398240 >>16398325

I think my parents are trying to get me a job. This wouldn't be so bad if it were not for the fact that I think it may be a job involving a lot of driving and driving trucks. I chose not to peruse a license because I know I'm too absent minded to actually drive a car.

I wonder if any grocery stores nearby are hiring. Stacking shit onto shelves at 1AM seems more like my kind of thing. At least then I wouldn't rear end into someone and I can just daydream.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 08:19:15 No.16397180 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16397448 >>16398240

I wish
That I could turn back time

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 11:05:52 No.16397448 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16398240

>>16397180
I'm sure a lot of people here feel the same way, myself included.

I've been a NEET for years and I haven't done shit about it, it's only continuously going to get worse.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 11:17:55 No.16397470 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16398240

>>16396288
>nausea? vomiting? fever
No. The fever I'm not sure about. It is improving, though. My eyes are watering and I'm sniffling, but there isn't a stream of fluid coming out anymore, although it's clogged.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 15:58:54 No.16398240 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16398325 >>16400805 >>16402698

>>16397180
>>16397448
What would you do differently?
>>16396391
Wal mart?
>>16397470
Sounds like a bad cold

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 16:26:34 No.16398325 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16396391
>>16398240
Yeah, try Walmart. I just got a call about an interview for a position like that, working 2 to 11.

Also, now's a good time to apply to all the jobs if you're looking for one, seeing as the holidays are coming up.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 17:16:25 No.16398421 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16394737
Well I'm the one doing the waiting atm.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 17:43:24 No.16398513 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16398649 >>16398933

How does one stop being a meet when he weights 400 pounds?
Does anyone else have a real reason why you are a meet?

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 18:27:29 No.16398649 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16398793

>>16398513
>a meet
please tell me this was a typo

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 19:13:57 No.16398793 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16398649
It was

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 19:52:25 No.16398933 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16398947

>>16398513
work out man

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 19:56:00 No.16398947 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16399948 >>16402698

>>16398933
I can't without injuring myself

Ten !!c+cOAOfqNoI

Ten !!c+cOAOfqNoI Tue 27 Oct 2015 19:56:07 No.16398951 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16398958 >>16399411 >>16399948

NEETworkout starts in 10mins

http://s_ynchtu.be/r/neetadv

Ten !!c+cOAOfqNoI

Ten !!c+cOAOfqNoI Tue 27 Oct 2015 19:57:30 No.16398958 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16399411

>>16398951

Remove the underscore from URL.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 22:04:42 No.16399411 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16398951
>>16398958
Hey, Ten.

How's life? Any speeches for the anniversary?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 00:39:01 No.16399948 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16400546

>>16398947
Restrict your diet, start walking. Track your caloric intake. The sticky on >>>/fit/ has all the information you need.
>>16398951
I'm sorry I missed, I thought you'd given up man. Thursday?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 01:25:55 No.16400048 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403209

I always end up losing my motivation. While I am at work I think of all the things I want to do today. Learn to play my bass, draw, improve my vocabulary, exercise. Once I get home its always the usual.

>Turn laptop
>porn
>masterbate

Whole day fucking gone. What is wrong with me? I don't want to keep doing this shit anymore. I caved in and masterbated after 3 days of no fapping. I keep thinking of my ex and that shit just made me fall down the whole I keep trying to climb out of. I used to look forward to Fridays but now I don't even want them to come by. My weekends are always the same. Vidya, sleep, repeat.

I don't know what to do anymore... should I just go away?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 04:29:04 No.16400546 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403209

>>16399948
your a sticky.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 05:43:45 No.16400674 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16384037
Why even post this here? Why? Fuck off. You aren't helping yourself either.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 07:11:30 No.16400777 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16373072
Ok. Now get a cat.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 07:12:59 No.16400783 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16373121
Driver's license then college or skip and get a job.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 07:20:11 No.16400793 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16378579
>I don't want to really lie to everyone
Odly enough that's how I got my first job.
If you want to advance you may have to suffocate your morals a little.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 07:26:59 No.16400805 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403209

>>16398240
There's a lot of things I'd do differently. I don't want to go into detail; but ideally if everything were to work out if I handled certain events a different way, I'd have a job and a girlfriend. Would it be a high paying job? Probably not.

Still a huge step up from where I am currently at in life.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 07:27:33 No.16400806 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403209

>>16380568
Yes, a qt door greater said hi to me and I said hi back. It took like 2 minutes before I could whipe the stupid smurk off my face.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 07:37:02 No.16400824 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401059 >>16401066 >>16401108 >>16401216 >>16401632

My mom is kicking me out soon. She has shifted recently to the mindset where she's "had enough and can't live like this anymore". Apparently I am the cause of all the problems in her life, everything is "my fault" and I "can't stay here anymore".

Thus far I have just stared at her while she's been saying these things. She broke down crying on one occasion but only because she felt sorry for herself. You would think she's the victim of some great tragedy to hear her say it. She wants me to go live with my sister (who is a psychopath and who I have avoided for years). The reality is that I would just be going from one box room to another; moving from one insanity to another.

My mother has spoken to the few other people in my life (other family members) and told them to tell me that it would be a good thing. So now I'm getting it from all angles. But it's not even being framed as a choice. No one is saying "I think you should do this"; they're wording it as 'this is what is happening and you should see it as a good thing'. What a crock of shit. My mother just wants to wash her hands of my existence.

She brought me into the world, promptly divorced and then proceeded to put zero effort into 'parenting' because she's a nutter who has no business taking care of a houseplant, much less a human being. Now the chickens have come home to roost and she's more than happy to just put my existence behind her.

I was very tempted to kill myself this week but my dad (who is my only ally in life but who I cannot live with due to reasons) reminded me implicitly for the second time in my life not to do anything silly.

I don't know what will happen in my immediate future, even on a day to day basis. This lifestyle has never been sustainable for me; it has always been a precarious existence where each new day has been uncharted territory to see how deep things can possibly go. The only outcomes I can see in my field of view are (1) suicide and (2) something else (unknown).

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 09:19:45 No.16401059 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16400824
>My mother just wants to wash her hands of my existence.
why not? you already did this yourself. Right now your mother is your victim not the other way around

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7mgeFag !!JXsqLnGUUaz Wed 28 Oct 2015 09:24:12 No.16401066 Report Delete

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>>16400824
>get a job
>save jewgold
>move out

Quit blaming your parents. You're an adult whether you like it or not, and you're not being given a choice in the matter either. Start acting like it

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 09:27:10 No.16401076 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401087

Can someone recommend me a videogame/TV show/movie to waste the whole day on. I don't feel like being active at all today but I also don't want to sleep the day away

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 09:30:11 No.16401087 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401105

>>16401076
What do you like anon?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 09:35:55 No.16401105 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401131

>>16401087
I don't like TV shows where all the characters do is talk about something that is going to happen but do nothing, I can't run any game that demands as much or more than watchdogs and I can only play with an Xbox controller. I likdont like action movies also I could watch a YouTube channel or anime or anything except read. A book

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 09:37:11 No.16401108 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401203

>>16400824

So presuming you're an adult, why do you care what your mother does? Move out, you're a grown up.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 09:46:05 No.16401131 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401137

>>16401105
Give Samurai flamenco a try, its about super heroes.
As for games, maybe Rise of nations.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 09:49:31 No.16401137 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401140

>>16401131
I was thinking either trine or finishing work and the blind forest. I would like to avoid anime if I have the chance to be honest

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 09:51:30 No.16401140 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16401137
Ori and the blind forest

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 10:37:21 No.16401203 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401258

>>16401108
Not anon, but moving out isn't as easy as you make it sound.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 10:47:52 No.16401216 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16400824
How old are you? You need to work on identifying your other options if suicide and going to live with your sister were all you could come up with. Working is bad but not THAT bad.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 11:10:31 No.16401258 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401333

>>16401203
>Just go outside
>Just get a job!
>Just move out!
>Just do x!

It's always easier said than done. It's advice, but it's not very constructive at all when you still have to figure out how to do any of these on your own.

I'm not saying everybody should be spoonfed; but if you're going to tell someone to do anything, at least try to be more in-depth about it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 11:54:43 No.16401333 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401388

>>16401258
its both easy and the only solution. you have built a mental wall that you cant climb. You belive its harder than it actually is

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 12:22:32 No.16401388 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401505

>>16401333
So would you mind giving advice on overcoming one's "mental wall that cannot be climbed"?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 13:15:39 No.16401505 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16401623

>>16401388
Ignore it and act like a normal person anyways and it will go away

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 14:05:47 No.16401623 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16402144

>>16401505
Anon...what's normal?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 14:10:04 No.16401632 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16400824
>they're wording it as 'this is what is happening and you should see it as a good thing'.

Pff. When I do that to women they cry rape after. they're such hypocrites.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 14:45:52 No.16401740 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403209

Need to find out about how disability lawyers work. I want to apply but a lot of places on the internet say it would help if I had a lawyer from the start. What do you guys think? Does anyone know about this?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:11:31 No.16402144 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16401623
Functional

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 19:26:08 No.16402678 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16402832

>>16392591
What's functional, anon?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 19:30:46 No.16402698 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16398240
I don't know what it was, but it wasn't a mere cold. Colds aren't that bad. I'm better now.

>>16398947
Eat less. Go for walks, and then go for jogs, and then for runs. If you take in less calories than you use, you'll lose weight. If you eat more than you use, you'll gain weight.

You don't need to starve yourself to lose weight. Simply do more.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 20:03:07 No.16402832 Report Delete

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>>16402678
Something that works and doesn't flap around breaking itself every two steps

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Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 20:28:19 No.16402909 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16373053
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D5Fa50oj45s

jon kabat zinn guided meditation

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:50:03 No.16403209 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16400048
if you have a job and money, take time off and go on a trip?
>>16400805
How fucked are your job prospects?
>>16400806
Hellllll yeahhhh nigga!
>>16401740
Were you disabled from work?
>>16400546
u mad bro?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 22:08:26 No.16403271 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403303

I've doing stuff on Khan academy all day,never realized that maths are fun.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 22:17:13 No.16403303 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403325 >>16403396

>>16403271
Really? I've had 1 Khan Academy lesson as a daily a couple of days a week on Habitica for the past couple of weeks and I always miss them. I fucking dread it.

What are you doing? I'm still on Algebra 1. I seem to fuck up things like basic addition a lot, and every time I get a question wrong I feel like it's a prod about how stupid I am.

I used to be better, but my cognitive functions have declined over the past year or so. I guess because I've been in isolation for so many years now.

Writing this blog post I guess because I want to know how you enjoy it. I guess you're just good at it?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 22:23:36 No.16403325 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16403303
> I used to be better, but my cognitive functions have declined over the past year or so. I guess because I've been in isolation for so many years now.

I was about to fail a 3rd year module in Maths knowing next to nothing. Literally had 2 days before the exam and I knew jackshit. Fortunately I still had a mate on this module and he brought me up to scratch in those 2 days and I was able to get 69% pass.

Isolation can fuck you up real bad.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 22:47:33 No.16403396 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403450

>>16403303
I think you should go back to the basics.
I started 1 month ago, being a NEET for 5 years I didn't remember shit about maths, I couldn't even do basic shit like multiplication and division.
So I started from the beginning, Basic maths, I remembered everything as I went through the videos they give to you, then Arithmetic,I had some problems with fractions, now I Started Pre Algebra/Algebra I.
And I'm not really good at maths,In fact I always sucked at them,always barely passing the exams etc.
I have fun with it because I'm learning more than I ever did back in school (talking about maths only) and this past 5 years, Damn I wish I had access to this site when I was in school,I would've got good grades, it so easy to learn, everything is explained so easily that even someone like me who a month ago couldn't do division, now is doing Algebra.
I feel like after 5 years, I'm accomplishing something.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 23:02:07 No.16403450 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403481

>>16403396
That's something I really didn't want to do. It felt like admitting through years of schooling I failed to learn, and that I couldn't do shit a 10 year old could do.

I already feel self-concious about learning algebra, knowing a lot of people my age learned when I should have, in intermediate/high school, so 7-8 years ago now for me, and have probably now finished university doing way more advanced shit.

But I think you're right, I'll do that. There's a pleasure how easy the simpler questions are to answer. This guy I know was telling me not to feel bad about not remembering stuff from school - he has a 5 year old and couldn't remember division to help her with her homework. He thought it was pretty common, only a small amount of people retain that shit because we've had easy access to calculators for a long time now.

And that "Are you smarter than a fifth grader?" thing. I suppose they get the highest achieving kids from the best schools to compete with the adults, but still. Makes me feel less stupid being so far behind.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 23:20:58 No.16403481 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16403489 >>16405791

>>16403450
Is not like you failed to learn, but if you don't use to the things you have learned, you will forget how to do it anyway, especially on maths which you need constant training to get better, and also remember a lot of formulas, forget 1 formula and you are done with that problem.
People finishing University are constantly dealing with math problems, people like us NEETs probably doing zero math at home, obviously would forget the very basics.
even normal people with jobs that don't require heavy math forget most of the things they learned.
Don't feel bad about that anon, don't feel like you're stupid, Do the maths at Khan academy from the beginning and you will remember all in no time.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 23:23:38 No.16403489 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16403481
Thanks, anon

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 23:33:24 No.16403515 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16404475

Since comic-con was a bit of a bust, where else can I meet geeks/nerds?
I still felt like a socially awkward twat there.

(I didn't really open my mouth when we to comic-con and the fact that it's not really a meetup might have why.)

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 06:47:44 No.16404475 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16404748 >>16406776

>>16403515
You could have started a meetup group looking for people to go to comicon with you but its still trying to salvage a bad idea. If you want friends or at least social contact join a class or a course people there are pretty much forced to interact with you

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 08:09:52 No.16404600 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406645

Why is 4chan the only thing that holds my attention?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 08:30:52 No.16404643 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16404906

>>16373005
Have a bowl of "man the fuck up".

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 09:35:07 No.16404748 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406776

>>16404475
>You could have started a meetup group looking for people to go to comicon with you

Funnily enough I did go with people (2 different sets in fact), I'm not a complete lunatic, though whether you'd call them friends is another thing. 2nd group was just a dude I knew invited me to tag along with his group when he decided to go to comic-con.

I have a few 'friends' but aside from them being flaky, they don't really have the same interests as me and I've never met another geek/nerd (let alone geek girl) in the area.

I'm just thinking it would be easier to meet people, my social anxiety/awkwardness/fears not withstanding, with similar interests.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 11:02:27 No.16404906 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16404643
i laughed

thanks anon

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 11:14:44 No.16404923 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405500

>>16377243
I look kinda like Big Boss, without the eyepatch, scarring, and buff (mr skeletal here)

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 14:37:07 No.16405463 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405514

What have you all been doing so far this week?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 14:52:22 No.16405500 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16404923
'_'7
THANKS FOR THAT, BOSS!

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 14:59:18 No.16405514 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406316

>>16405463
I kind of already posted but my friend visited me this weekend, I went to the weight loss clinic on Monday when they told me I have to go somewhere else for a while because I'm not ready for surgery, they made me wait 4 hours too and I spent a lot of money on starbucks and magazines on Tuesday I had a class and I had to go to my appointment with my therapist and yesterday I visited my dad for a while to collect my neet bucks . finally today I had class again

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 15:31:01 No.16405580 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405712

A month ago I went here to say I had just found myself a job. today contract is ended and they didn't make another one. even after all the shit I went through it keeps ending in the same way.
what the fuck should I do

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:20:53 No.16405712 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405739

>>16405580
Give up? You certainly want to

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:32:09 No.16405739 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405747

>>16405712
Give up what
I have nothing

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:35:39 No.16405747 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405752

>>16405739
You still have one thing to give up tho

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:36:47 No.16405752 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406316

>>16405747
There's nothing left here

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:39:47 No.16405765 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405770 >>16405771 >>16405778

>Looking everywhere online
>Can barely find any places hiring for seasonal work, let-alone night shifts

Am I retarded or am I completely missing something here?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:41:44 No.16405770 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16405765
What's worse when I actually do find something, the position requires experience of some sort.

I don't have any whatsoever outside of volunteer work at school several years ago, which doesn't apply in most cases. Fuck me.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:41:54 No.16405771 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405776

>>16405765
Both
LOL

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:42:51 No.16405776 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16405771
I figured as much

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:43:33 No.16405778 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405810

>>16405765
Where are you looking? From my experience, places like Walmart or Target don't have listings on job sites, so go apply directly on their sites. Any nearby store you can think of, go apply to.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:49:10 No.16405791 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406283

>>16403481
What if you never learned past multiplication in the first place?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:56:05 No.16405810 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16405778
I'm just looking through various sites that post listings. I will probably look around and see what's available so I can apply anywhere nearby tomorrow.

I recently moved to this area but I've been a NEET for a good while anyway. So I'm not too sure what's around here besides a Walmart. Already applied there.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 18:15:27 No.16406050 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406256

I'm 23 and been a NEET all my life. Currently living with my sister, but she is on welfare and can barely keep the lights on. Right now I'm at the library, on a phone that has no service aside from the free Wi-Fi that I'm using now. I have severe procrastination and motivation issues, but once I get going on a task I'm practically a workaholic.

I've been trying to look for work, but I'm in a small, shitty SoCal suburb that has nothing but Mom & Pop shops and a handful of markets that aren't hiring. There's more opportunity in towns a couple dozen miles away, but I need to take the bus there, which means I need to spend what little cash I have just to look for work.

The big problem is that most places are apply online only, which is pointless for me if they have no method to contact me afterwards. With these circumstances, how can I find a job to get myself on my feet, or at least enough to help with the bills?

Saw some working at home advice earlier in the thread. I'll give that a shot and hope it works on a tablet, but I'd appreciate any advice.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 19:24:21 No.16406256 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16406050
You are poor, poor do you understand? You need to do what poor people do, poor people often can't find work so they start selling food or coffee or wathever they can. It's a very small investment, you can start with only bus fare and some cheap candy. Ideally you could play the guitar or do something for cash but I'm going out on a limb and guessing you don't know how

Anonymous

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Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 19:30:55 No.16406276 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406294 >>16408147

>be NEET for 2.5 years after dropping out of college prep boarding school sort of and getting a GED
>somehow accepted to Penn State, main campus
>grandma is offering to pay for the entire thing
>considering electrical engineering

I might actually get the fuck out, anons. I start this January.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 19:32:17 No.16406283 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16405791
Then learn on Khan Academy,though you may have hard time since you maybe don't know the multiplication chart, but that is only memorization.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 19:35:41 No.16406294 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16406276
Good luck anon, if someone is willing to pay for your college you must take that opportunity.
I had that opportunity but the person who offered me to pay full college, had a son later so all my dreams went to the sewer and I stayed a NEET.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 19:43:06 No.16406316 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406569

>>16405514
>weight loss
>starbucks
oh boy!
>>16405752
Never give up

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 19:51:58 No.16406342 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406581

I thought getting professional help would be a good thing but all it did was complicate matters. Now I'm on meds and my brain is even more full of fuck than it was before.

I just don't know what to do anymore.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:54:59 No.16406569 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16406316
None of us are here because we are exactly high achievers are we?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 20:56:44 No.16406581 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406760

>>16406342
>warn people against meds
>they take meds anyways
>they experience exactly what I tell them they will
How could this happen

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:09:26 No.16406619 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16406785

>>16373005
I left the NEET lifestyle a while back, and it's killing me. I get 4 hours a day to myself if I'm lucky, sleep less than I should, eat junk for food because I don't have energy to cook a proper meal, and the bottle's tempting me again. I don't see my friends anymore and I can't remember the last time I did any of my hobbies.

I can't go back to the folks, they can't afford it anyway and even then it's a temporary solution to a lifelong problem. How do you guys manage to pull off having time and money to afford basic needs?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:14:22 No.16406645 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16404600

It's one of the last places on the internet with real discussion and enough people to make it not dead.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:43:04 No.16406760 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16406581
it was worth a try I suppose

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:48:44 No.16406776 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16404475
>>16404748
So... any suggestions for where to look?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 21:52:59 No.16406785 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16406619
I don't have any friends to spend nights out on, so I've saved about £10K and this is on a shit-tier pay over 2 years.

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Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 00:24:33 No.16407276 Report Delete

Quoted By:

Heading to a real chad halloween party this halloween. I don't know how the fuck I managed to get in on the party. My question is what in the flying fuck i should do. I'll be knowing about 15 of the 125 people that'll be there. Obviously i can't follow my friend as if i'm sort of pet but how the fuck do i make this shit go around? I'm utter shit at getting the ball rolling and keep it that way, halp pl0x. This may be my exit

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 07:28:30 No.16408147 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16406276
if that's you, i'd fuck you walter jr.

fuck you for good genetics btw u cunny

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 07:37:41 No.16408159 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16408249 >>16408855

>>16375387
You can, it's just pretty unlikely.
[spoiler:lit]My bf is a NEET, but is actively working to better himself[/spoiler:lit]

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 08:44:34 No.16408249 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16408159
Is this an internet relationship?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 09:30:54 No.16408319 Report Delete

Quoted By:

fug fams

I'm on 10mg lexapro now and it's hecking me up

I got insomnia like crazy, took melatonin, zzzquil, Tylenol, chamomile, l-theanine, magnesium and I still can't sleep well

I need a hug. but on the bright side I am getting less anxious, slowly. usually I've had to take Xanax everyday because of panic but now I don't need to take it everyday.

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 10:00:01 No.16408365 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16408380

So another shitty day begins. What should I do different today? Keep in mind is going to rain all day

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 10:08:35 No.16408380 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16408383

>>16408365
>rain all day

Londonfag?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 10:10:13 No.16408383 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16408380
No

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 13:43:06 No.16408855 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16408159
Was he NEET when you met him though?

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 14:34:08 No.16409047 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16409636

I'm so fucking bored. I have already done everything I wanted to do today and now I find myself counting the minutes until the day ends. The only thing I can think of doing is buying some food which is the reason why I can't get a job

Anonymous

Anonymous Fri 30 Oct 2015 17:22:58 No.16409636 Report Delete

Quoted By:

>>16409047
I know. There's only so much NEETs can do during the day then everything becomes boring and irritating. There really isn't a way to get around this until we unNEET ourselves.

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