>>16373904You,
Pretty sure those long explanation aren't my posts anywhere, just chill out and love your life. Love will happen no need to fear. I will understand it, we were wrong and it's good to admit that. So we can stop being stubborn and change to be better persons for once. Time and distance change people for the better. Solitude is key not isolation but solitude. Know yourself and know others.
Anons,
From my experience, life is simple, fear and love. An apology or thank you. If you don't say it it will come out in unhealthy ways. Don't bottle things up, no matter how many letters or get it off your chest posts you do you will never truly feel better because you didn't address the problem directly.
You either act out of fear or love. Some grew up in fear and became emotional vampires. Some grew up in love and fear and became balanced people. Some only love and get hurt. Some love to get hurt. Some fear others so much they fight them for falling in love. Some people like being hopeless, lonely and depressed. Then fear when someone acts in love towards others. Life is simple. Control your emotions, follow your goals, and have a dream. when you do then you wouldn't be here trying to kill someone, harrass them, whine about them or compete with them. No, you will be finally living your life like you should have. I experienced this first hand and went through some phases too.
No matter how badly you think you're fucked. Step back be thankful for the challenge and own it. Life is not living if you are dying. So live to die.
Choose your influence. Some will hate and will be obsessed with superficiality. They are uninitiated in life and are following the herd. Insecurity needs security. Be a pioneer. Life is about experience and survival. Souls and connection. There's more to life, so make the best out of it.
You,
Don't attack the wrong people. You are blessed enough to be able to enjoy your lives comfortably. We are lessons not friends. friends share.