>hung out with this girl
>she confessed to me and I said yes
>hung out with her again
>we get burgers and i stay over at her house
>she smokes a blunt and sits on the far end of her kitchen table just giggling
>i didn't partake and just kind of sat there awkwardly for like an hour
>later that week she texts me a lot asking me to come see her and bring her lunch and stuff while I'm in the middle of class
>i just kind of shut her off after she texts me angrily when i say i can't just come see her whenever she wants
>she has been coming to lectures again and hasn't been giving off any bad blood or anything
>really torn on whether or not i should reengage

I've been kind of desperate for some companionship but i can't just let her keep my balls in her purse. How can I set some conditions in our relationship? Like how can i get her to stop being do needy?