I've improved greatly in the past few years as far as sociability goes. I have plenty of friends and actually spend time with people. Nonetheless there are only a few I feel I can confide in. And moreso there is no one I really feel a strong connection with.

Maybe it's some sort of illusion I've made for myself... but from what I can see most people have at least one other person, or a group, that get along so well with each other.

On the one hand I suppose I'm the kind of person to avoid that sort of closeness. And I'm only able to be comfortable with someone after I've known them a while. Yet I have a strong desire to find this kind of relationship.
I just can't understand how you get to that level though. Maybe I'm not capable of it.

Well, I wanted to at least ask here if anyone has that sort of relationship with someone, and what it's like and how it happened. Cheers.