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Escaping an affair

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 11:13:49 No.16386071 View Reply Report Delete

>be me
>have long distance relationship
>love of life is still in state
>Walmart job barely let's me have a day off to see her.
>have affair with unstable grill.
>unstable bitch won't leave me alone
>threatens killing herself if I leave
>try leaving many times but then threatens suicide.
>only way to do it quick is to tap it but don't want to.

What do /adv/? The situation is making me paranoid and crazy.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 11:39:37 No.16386136 Report Delete

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Op here.

Self bumping because I'm running short on time

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 11:52:57 No.16386173 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16386185

It's not your responsibility if she commits suicide. You're just enabling her behaviour by responding to her threats. Have her put on suicide watch next time.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 11:56:44 No.16386185 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16386195 >>16386196

>>16386173
Thing is though, I tell her time and time again to seek help but that woman is too damned stubborn. Me and her can't say shit of what we did to anyone else.

A girl that will break the rules !!9Sfsjv2A1jv

A girl that will break the rules !!9Sfsjv2A1jv Sat 24 Oct 2015 11:59:45 No.16386195 Report Delete

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>>16386185
Reread the post, she's not your responsibility. Call the police next time.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:00:09 No.16386196 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16386206

>>16386185

Not
Your
Problem

Doesn't she have any family you can dump this on?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:05:14 No.16386206 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16386211

>>16386196
Her family finds out, it'll worsen the situation. There's so much I wish I can do, but every solution I can think of will worsen it all for me in one way or another

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:06:37 No.16386211 Report Delete

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>>16386206

You're being helm emotionally hostage I can't really see how much worse it can get unless you end up locked in a basement being fed cakes mixed with her blood.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:10:45 No.16386233 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16386246 >>16386273

Op here.
I wish I could just believe it isn't my responsibility if I let her die. Thing is, from my perspective, if I let her die knowing I'm the one who broke the camel's back, I see it as I just murdered her. I ain't no murderer. I'm too damned generous. Her and her friend say this is all my mess. I'm fucking terrified /adv/

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:12:01 No.16386239 Report Delete

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>>16386071

>cheated
>getting fucked in the ass

Karma is pretty nice.

Male Vegetarian !j7ls9NGWQI

Male Vegetarian !j7ls9NGWQI Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:14:57 No.16386246 Report Delete

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>>16386233
Yeah. She says it's your mess.
That makes it not HER mess.

I-it's not my fault! It's his!

Ignore them. That's the only way. Ignore them.

As for cheating, you're a pile of human waste.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:16:16 No.16386254 Report Delete

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if someone ever threatens to kill themselves if you break up with them, two things:
1. they are not going to kill themselves.
2. if they were going to kill themselves, it wouldn't be your responsibility.
call her bluff.

this is what you get for cheating in a LDR

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:21:31 No.16386273 Report Delete

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>>16386233
> I'm too damned generous
No, you're a selfish cunt. That's why you cheated in the first place.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:24:08 No.16386284 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16386296 >>16386303

I know I am. I feel so guilty for cheating. It pains me so much now. I know I'm a wretch for it. Once this is done, I'm never doing this again

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:24:48 No.16386286 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16386325

You're human. Even though you were in a relationship, you just wanted to fuck. Don't let moralfags ITT bash you for it. You knew it was just fucking and you probably shouldn't do it and she knew it was just fucking. Of course, unless you're a manipulator and manipulated her to be with you by giving her false hope. Yet I don't think so. A manipulator would know what to do in the first place and wouldn't ask for advice here. Here is what you do: Explain her your situation. Tell her to grow up. Tell her that she'll find a perfect someone who'll love her and make her happy and you'd be with her as a friend till that man comes, you know, gay shit like that. Suicidal people are suicidal. If she kills herself, I know you'd feel responsible, but in reality you're probably not. Stay strong and don't freak out.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:27:43 No.16386296 Report Delete

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>>16386284

>those mental gymanstics
>that lack of any kind of real guilt
>that lack of truth

Are you sure you aren't a woman OP? You're starting to seem like one, all you need to do now is blame your SO for forcing you to cheat for some reason.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:29:57 No.16386303 Report Delete

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>>16386284
You'll do it again

There are 2 types of people when it comes to cheating. People who cheat and people who don't. I'm mean look at your OP. You actually try to rationalize it with this LDR shit and your taxing "Walmart job"

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:37:43 No.16386325 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16386340 >>16386454

>>16386286
She's even said she might report me. I'm in a situation where if I don't cooperate, I'm fucked.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 12:43:51 No.16386340 Report Delete

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>>16386325
Report for what?
>Raping
her? Tell her not to be funny. And speak to a lawyer, one that you know would be better. Like a friend studied law or something. Know your rights and act accordingly. Wish you luck.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 13:25:02 No.16386454 Report Delete

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>>16386325

Report you for what? If it's rape just record her threatening reporting you for rape and stop fucking her if you haven't already.

If it's for cheating I don't even know what's wrong with your head

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 13:42:08 No.16386506 Report Delete

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I've never understood this.

Just let her kill herself you fag.

All of my exes threatened suicide but only one did it, and I didn't even give a shit that she did it.

Fuck her and her neurotic bullshit and thank god she can't affect anyone else with her crazy shit.

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