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Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 17:44:49 No.16387307 View Reply Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387321 >>16387323 >>16387325 >>16387427 >>16387465 >>16387866

My mom got totally angry at me when I told her that I rejected a girl who liked me. She is 18 y/o and already had 5 partners. That simply grossed me the fuck out so I declined. Very politely even.
My mom's still mad at me though, so who's in the right here?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 17:47:07 No.16387314 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387340 >>16387492

You don't have to date a girl you don't want to be with, and you don't have to justify your reasoning to anyone. There's nothing wrong with having tastes, preferences, and standards based on the things you consider important, even if other people disagree with you.

Your mom can criticize and question your reasoning if she wants, but it's stupid to be "mad" that you turned a girl down

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 17:49:08 No.16387321 Report Delete

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>>16387307
You, because your mom has no right in telling you with whom to be with.

Your mom seems to have some problems though. Or dreams she seems to pursue very eagerly

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 17:49:14 No.16387323 Report Delete

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>>16387307
First its your life and you can reject anyone you choose for any reason and Second, stop telling your mother every fucking thing and Third, STOP TELLING YOUR MOTHER EVERYTHING

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 17:49:51 No.16387325 Report Delete

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>>16387307
Nobody is, you're free to live your life and hold people to your own standards, and your mom just is a bit more practical and wants you to be more modern and normal. There isn't a right or wrong to it, just realize that your mom is only trying to help you, and forgive her if you think it's too much.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 17:51:59 No.16387337 Report Delete

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I feel like there's something you're not telling us here. No mother would be more than a tad disappointed in this situation.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 17:53:16 No.16387340 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387351 >>16388229

>>16387314
Well, it's more about that I turned her down for the partner thing. Not just turning a girl down in general, but thanks

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 17:55:05 No.16387347 Report Delete

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Your moms fucking crazy.

Also stick with that standard, you'll be better off in the long run OP relationship wise I mean.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 17:56:25 No.16387351 Report Delete

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>>16387340

It'd be fucked up if you were really judgmental about it, called her a slut or told people about it or whatever, but you didn't do that. You just politely turned her down.

My point was that these are your personal feelings, you can't control it. She told you something about herself that turned you off and changed the way you felt. Nothing you can do about it. So it's dumb for someone to be angry at you for that.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:00:15 No.16387365 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387379 >>16387384

>>16387351
>My point was that these are your personal feelings
Not sure if it's about a feeling here. I think it's just rational not wanting to be with a town bicycle, who doesn't take relationships serious enough to also hold them.
But anyways, thx

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:03:30 No.16387379 Report Delete

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>>16387365
>not wanting to be with a town bicycle, who doesn't take relationships serious enough to also hold them.

Dunno why but that made me giggle

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:05:14 No.16387384 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387396

>>16387365

Your mom's a whore, that's why she got upset. She'd probably had at least 5 partners by the time she was 18, and it insults her to hear that her own son would judge and dismiss a girl just like her.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:08:52 No.16387396 Report Delete

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>>16387384
>Your mom's a whore
HEY
you're probably right lol

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:20:22 No.16387427 Report Delete

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>>16387307
If you don't like a girl, your mother has no right to get pissy. Just tell her you were not interested in the girl, you don't owe her an explanation.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:34:21 No.16387465 Report Delete

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>>16387307
Op. Fuck your mother. Girls make choices not to be with guys for all sorts of reasons too.

>too neckbeardy.
>too nerdy.
>too short.
>balding.
>been with too many girls.
>been with too few girls.
>not highly desired by other girls.
>too young.
>too old.

Everyone has criteria. Your mother probably had tons of guys that wanted to date her over her life, and they all were rejected her because she has her own criteria.

You have the right to reject people for any reason you damn well please. Girls do this all the time. Ask you mother why its wrong for you to reject someone for personal reasons when girls do it constantly to guys

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:46:15 No.16387492 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16387502 >>16387510 >>16387515

>>16387314
You also need to realize that reject a girl (or anyone else) for having a life before you come into picture is way more stupid than doing what your mom wants.

In fact, the best thing in life that could happen to this girl is being rejected by a moron like you.

You will be a douchebag all your life if you keep thinking like that.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:49:39 No.16387502 Report Delete

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>>16387492
>You must like any person as they are and accept them into their life no matter what!
>She's a girl how dare you reject her!
>But that guy from class who chose the brony lifestyle better not even THINK of me sexually and try to talk to me or I'll scream sexual harassment to the school board!

So, why aren't you trying to get to know Charles Manson better and become his friend? Are you going to practice what you preach, that people should accept others no matter what they're like as a person?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:51:15 No.16387510 Report Delete

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>>16387492
How she is determined fucking five other guys before 18. Same as who a guy is determines him being neckbeardy. You are what you do. She is rejecting her for who she is, because she has done what she is.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:52:06 No.16387515 Report Delete

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>>16387492
>You also need to realize that reject a girl (or anyone else) for having a life before you come into picture is way more stupid than doing what your mom wants.
I hate to break it to you but the girls that get around are usually the ones that have issues.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:52:16 No.16387516 Report Delete

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>>16387510
*he is rejecting her

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 18:52:52 No.16387517 Report Delete

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slutty pasts are kind of like small penises. no one truly wants to be with someone who has one and it's always a touchy subject.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 19:22:09 No.16387593 Report Delete

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I don't agree with what your mom is doing.However worrying about a chicks past is pointless when it comes to partners,she could of had one partner but that doesn't mean she didn't indulge in some sloppy hardcore sex with him a lot of times.You will never find the virgin your heart desires,nevvvvvver.5 partners at 18 isn't that bad,men and women hit puberty at 12 years old on average.Were sexually active at 12,those things can happen,were most vulnerable at those younger ages.

Again Its pointless to worry about it,especially when you get older.Don't ask about her partners.When you get to the age 24,25 a lot of women will be wanting to settle down.Just enjoy the ride for now.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 19:38:58 No.16387640 Report Delete

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>>16387502
Charles Manson would probably be fun to talk to tbh fam

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 19:49:30 No.16387666 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16388190

If I was your mom I would be proud of you for having standards and not being desperate.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 21:00:47 No.16387866 Report Delete

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>>16387307

You can't be blamed for being grossed out. Even if, in my opinion, the number of sexual partners you she is not really that important.

Your mother has no word to say in that, it's none of her business.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:23:53 No.16388190 Report Delete

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>>16387666

>666

get out of here, witch

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:32:13 No.16388229 Report Delete

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>>16387340
Sounds like your mum has had a lot of dick and is taking offence lol

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:35:32 No.16388238 Report Delete

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good for you I mean i''d probably reject a girl if she has had more than 1 partner, in fact she'd have to be pretty hot for that 1 limit, in other cases, 0

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