>>16388049I mean, there's no sense in putting you down over what's already done. It's not that big of a deal. Lots of people have anxiety over their virginity, some lie about it, many have their first time pretty much exactly as you did.
But yeah, in the future, don't try to pass yourself off as more experienced than you actually are. It's not going to work when you get to the bedroom, as everybody needs practice before they're really any good at it. And all the bluffing will make it pretty much impossible for you to have any kind of real connection with the girl, which pretty much negates the point of sex to begin with. I'm not just talking about lovey-dovey shit, even casual sex is all about letting loose and being the most honest, basic, animal version of yourself.
If you like this girl, tell her the truth and try to patch things up and get them going again. Inexperience doesn't have to be a negative thing, it's really fun and exciting to start exploring sex, and if she thinks you're sexy she'll really enjoy being part of the excitement. Let her take on a teaching role for the next few encounters, "show you the ropes" so to speak. Lots of girls would be really turned on by a situation like that
