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Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:15:44 No.16388143 View Reply Report Delete

>Everyday I wake up miserable
>Hate everything
>Irritable
>nothing feels like it has any point
>thinking about the future fills me with fear
>just treading water through college because of the constant apathy, can't focus, can't work
>would never kill myself because of my mother, although I've had thoughts

>All I really want is to feel better
what should I do?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:18:11 No.16388156 Report Delete

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Talk to a psychologist

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:19:32 No.16388164 Report Delete

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>>16388143
Go have sex with a sex worker, that get rid of all that pent up sexual tension you've got.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:20:52 No.16388173 Report Delete

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>>16388143
is it me or has /adv/ experienced a population surge? Maybe it's cos of the winter and all the anons are coming back from their yearly attempts at integrating with society.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:26:45 No.16388209 Report Delete

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I was in this sort of mood earlier today. I think of it as a depressed, or contracted (as in on a single point) mind. So, the counter would be to spread your mind out - look for ways to empathize with people, to be compassionate towards others, etc. Not necessarily people either, maybe trees or squirrels or something simpler.

I was in a horrible mood at work, thinking about suicide and how doubtful and hopeless everything is, when a nice disabled lady cried in front of me because her hands were so twisted with age that she could neither lift a cup to her hands or adjust her bed so that she could sit up and use a straw. Despite this strong breakdown in front of me, a stranger, she was constantly apologizing about how she was inconveniencing me, a person literally paid to help her.

After helping her, I felt at first angry that she was in such a situation physically. Then, I cried a little. Then, I went back to work very refreshed, my previous depression gone, replaced with righteous urgency. If it comes back, I'll try the same technique.

So try to spread your thoughts and especially actions out to others, don't let yourself get bogged down in your own doubt. I hope this helps.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:36:05 No.16388244 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16388254 >>16388258

>>16388164
damn. I just came across this

https://www.reddit.com/r/gifs/comments/3q1n86/happy_guy_after_loosing_virginity_to_prostitute/

and I feel like shit. My mother would have my head if I ever had sex(24 btw).

I feel the same way as op. Everyday I wake up and feel shitty. I constantly have the fear of a terminal illness and scared to death over any small thing that happens to me. I cut out soda and avoid energy drinks like the plague. I drink three cups of coffee daily and I try to eat healthy, but I just feel lonely and like a social outcast. I took this shit last year and wholy fuc it made me feel chill as hell. It's herbal so no real side effects. The only problem is that it's $78 a bottle and I quit because of the expense.

OP. Find therapy, real therapy not that sex shit, maybe massage but no happy endings.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:39:20 No.16388254 Report Delete

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>>16388244
>My mother would have my head if I ever had sex(24 btw).

Uh... maybe you should stop being babied by your mother.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:40:26 No.16388258 Report Delete

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>>16388244
Title's kinda misleading.
Looked like a 18-20 yr on a 'lads' holiday rather than 40 yr virgin.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 24 Oct 2015 22:46:15 No.16388278 Report Delete

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>>16388254
how is that babied? She is the enforcer. Literally told me I had a month to find a job or live on the streets. A week later I landed a job inspecting bumpers for ford.

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