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Long distance advice

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 00:50:15 No.16388729 View Reply Report Delete

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Long distance relationship
She got mad at me last week
We didn't talk
When I try to talk She said she's not happy with me or the distance. She also says she has nothing left to say.
We been together a year.
Should I try talking to her and ask her what she wants. Or should I just say screw it and end this bullshit and her immature attitude.

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Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 00:54:16 No.16388740 Report Delete

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It's obviously over.

Also it doesn't sound like you've been together for a year. It sounds like you've made all of the sacrifices of being together, without the reality of literally being together. That brings out the worst in people.

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Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 00:58:22 No.16388747 Report Delete

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It's normal to get frustrated at the distance (especially for girls, they tend to look for different things in a relationship than guys. Guys usually want a steady, stable arrangement. Girls usually like surprises and a 'forward moving' arrangement if you get what I'm talking about). The answer is: It depends.

It depends what your current situation with it all is. If you've been together for a year, it's worth salvaging somewhat - but you have to see eye-to-eye. She obviously wants something more, and realises that you can't really give it to her in the current state of things. You obviously want to keep the status quo. So what's it going to be? Are you ready to keep the farce up a little while longer? Or are you ready to throw in the towel? It really depends on what you want, where your life is headed, your goals, aspirations... whatever.

Basically if you're not ready to move, then I'd suggest getting accustomed to either hitting on girls in bars or living the single life. Solitude ain't half bad mind you. I've been riding for a few months and it's pretty sweet - got my weekends back and shit.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 01:24:11 No.16388833 Report Delete

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Well I was working on getting her back. She's just the one that didn't stay with me and went back to her country. I said she didn't have to but she did anyway despite being married. She's just being a bitch. Basically I was in class last week. She messaged me and asked if she can call. I said I was in class is it an emergency since I didn't want to miss class. I told her I would leave regardless but did I have to like book it. Now she's just saying we won't talk unless it's an emergency Lmao.

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