I'm starting to constantly feel out of place and although I don't really want to change myself, I'm in my early twenties and I still don't have many proper friends so maybe it's time I do?
>too masculine to get along with most girls, not masculine enough to get along with guys
>feel too embarrassed to talk about things like music because most people away from the internet haven't heard of, or don't like the music I like.
>discouraged from talking about my degree because my best friend has 'jokingly' told me nobody cares (which is fair enough)
>other interests are mostly fitness-related so not much to talk about there
>people on my course are younger than me so I'm not really into getting drunk and going to clubs anymore, don't fit in with them
>don't really know much about pop culture stuff so can't talk about current shows, music etc

I try be a good listener, and I try keep the conversation focused on who I'm talking to but I feel like I never contribute much about myself and I'm not sure if that's why people don't seem to care all too much. Any advice on how to either become better at making connections, or just stop caring altogether?