I've been speaking to this girl for over 2 years over skype. Its quite a complicated situation. We've both professed romantic feelings for one another and agree that if that should change it would be better to cut it all off. We've also agreed that seeing as we've yet to meet its informally an open-relationship till we meet, luckily both of us are rather insecure so to date neither of us have really found anyone else that we wanted to go off with. Neither of us has professed anything particularly romantic in about 10 months now. The last time we called was over a year ago. Despite this we speak daily and tend to confide in each other things we wouldn't really tell others.

I've pressed her to allow me to call her (as in to confirm she'll answer), but she seems reluctant. However it also took me a couple of months to convince her to call me before and we ended up really enjoying the calls we had for about a month or so, so I think its some kind of weird insecurity on her half, rather than a problem with me

My issue is now, that I'm constantly doubting whether original terms of our arrangement are still in place? I can imagine that she may no longer feel feelings, despite the fact that i still feel strongly drawn to her. Despite this we still speak daily, even if there might not be feelings.

I've tried to confront her, tried to get how she feels out of her, but she doesnt really address my concerns. I don't know what to do, I feel drawn to speak to her, if only out of habit, but I can't shake the feeling.

I don't know if she still has feelings or not, there are inklings of evidence in either direction. I don't know if I should or even how to pull the plug on it if need be. Its just a real mess and I need some advice

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