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Cosmetic Surgery???

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 07:14:24 No.16389725 View Reply Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16389774 >>16389844 >>16390060

Plastic surgery (nose and boobs) at a young age (17) ??
Been wanting for as long as I can remember. Not doing this for anyone else either as ive been in a stable relationship for 2 years. Im not shallow or fake neither which some people seem to conclude from my desire. I fell in love with my boyfriend for his big heart not his big dick or muscles.

Would like all types of opinions, positive and negative. I really need to make up my mind and start saving should I decide to go through with it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 07:50:12 No.16389771 Report Delete

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The reason you want it exists outside your concious. Getting the surgery wont solve your issues, see a therapist.

That being said, the surgery will do no harm so if you can afford it do both.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 07:52:05 No.16389774 Report Delete

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>>16389725
I read a news article recently that said that the suicide rate for people who had had gastric bypass surgery was surprisingly high. Evidently those fat people put all their faith in the idea that if they weren't fat they would be less unhappy. But they just wound up thinner unhappy people, and had no other solution.

My point is that, especially if you're considering the surgery for your own happiness, you had better be prepared for the possibility that having a smaller nose and bigger boobs might not make you as happier as you think.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 08:47:37 No.16389827 Report Delete

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>> 16389771

I dont understand what you mean by 'outside my conscious', do you mean there is an external source? Consciousness is the continuous stream of thoughts so do you mean it is below my waking conscious? Sorry just a bit confused. But youre probably right about seeing someone, though I am well over therapists. Thank you so much for taking the time to get a complete random advice

>> 16389774 I dont think there will be an endpoint in my life where I'd be able to look in the mirror and be completly satisfied. I try to devote a lot of my time to other people, so please dont think Im self obssessed but I honestly think that Ill continue to improve myself (not just looks btw) over the entire course of my life. Its not that Im unhappy with myself. Well thats a bit of a lie. But I do understand what you are saying. Again thanks very much for taking time to give me your opinion :)

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Male Vegetarian !j7ls9NGWQI Sun 25 Oct 2015 09:01:25 No.16389844 Report Delete

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>>16389725
Just consider that maybe your boyfriend won't be happy with it. Maybe he likes you just the way you are and wouldn't like to see you cut into yourself.

That being said, please refrain from posting while underage.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 09:08:09 No.16389859 Report Delete

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>>16389827

I should have said "consciousness", you know like self-awareness?

I would say it has something to do with the way you perceive yourself as a person, not your body and that even if you change your body those feelings will exist. The surgery may distance those feelings for a bit, but it wont last.

I dont mean to judge you, I too want to practically redo my face but I know its a superficial luxury that wont solve whatever it is that makes me feel inferior. (Dont worry about me, Im working on picking up skills that may land me job with benefits so I can milk the insurance for all the mental health billings I can get)

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 09:44:25 No.16389912 Report Delete

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>> 16389725 #
Weve talked about it before, he wouldnt but I just feel as though if I were happier with myself, I would be easier to love and better at loving.
Had absolutely no idea that there was an age restriction on this site. Up until a few days ago, I didnt even know this existed. When I read about it, I snatched up the opportunity to get peoples honest opinions on it (so much more different responses when Ive talked about this face to face) because I am literally terrified of people and keep to myself and my boyfriend, and would never of had the chance to ask this anywhere else. Sorry if my age makes you uncomfortable but this is the only thing I want to post, Id probably vomit should I venture deeper into the darker areas of this site Ive read about. I wont be posting anything else :)

>> 16389859 # Oh I understand now, sorry I do psych at school and thats consciousness is a concept we explore a lot so my definition is really narrow.
But youve given me a lot to think about. Never really approached it that way but that trully helped steer my thoughts in a healthier direction. What a lovely little online community (until you get deeper into threads and find things you cant unsee haha)

But thank you :)

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 10:36:46 No.16390002 Report Delete

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Really try to explain to yourself why you want this. It's a lot of money to change your physical appearance, and not to mention it's very dangerous. Write a pros/cons list and do a lot of research

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 10:54:40 No.16390060 Report Delete

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>>16389725
If anything I'd get the nose job and not the boob job. A nose can make the biggest difference in someone's face. But just remember when you get a boob job you have to upkeep it over the years which is a lot of money

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 25 Oct 2015 11:13:13 No.16390108 Report Delete

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>>16389844
>hat being said, please refrain from posting while underage
unnecessary tripfag minimod pls

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