Girlfriend of 5 years is getting on my nerves

>GF live 1 hour away so I can't help her with pc as often as I should
>Anon how do i do this on my pc
>explain it like it's a fucking sesame street instruction book with pics and everything
>she replies "..." when i give her a new indication
>"well now i'm fucking confused"
>it's ok anon, i know you did this guide and you have been for the past 30 mins trying to help me but i'll just give up i guess

>every
>fucking
>time


it's not just about pcs either. mainly everything that involves a lil effort she immediately quits. she doesn't want to change who she is, and if i insist she'll make me feel like i'm forcing her to do something horrible.

who's wrong here. what can i do.