Okay 4chan, you guys seem pretty knowledgeable sometimes. Should I break up with my girlfriend? Ive been thinking about it allot the past few months, but I was never sure if I really wanted to, it seems like Id be more unhappy without her, but I dont know. Heres the deal, when we first started dating everything seemed magical, we kissed all of the time, we used to cuddle all of the time, she used to let me bite her neck even. Things were also allot more intimate back then, we did sexual things as often as possible, we were both down for it. But now it seems like she's a totally different person, when I try to cuddle with her and be clingy she pushes me away most of the time, she says she dont like being touched, we dont kiss often at all, probably once a week. making out? Forget it, I could count the number of times we have made out on my hand through the whole YEAR we have been together. We started dating last Halloween, and we were together unofficially even before that. She asks why I bring up the past so much and gets mad at me when I compare how things were back than with how they are now. One thing I thought could cause this change was the death of her dad early this summer, I know that loss like that does things to people even though losing my dad didnt change me in such a way I just figured everyone grieves different and I would be patient and wait this thing out. This is getting ridiculous though, we never do anything sexual any more it seems like, even talking about it most of the time makes her uncomfortable for some reason, even saying I want to make out more. She says she is "Asexual", but that was obviously not the case several months before. She says she never wants to have sex in her life, and finds it gross, she said "Why would anyone want to do that?" So unless I cheat Im pretty much fucked, and I dont want to cheat. (Actually Im not fucked at all) I try my hardest to take her into consideration all of the time, cont.