I met my girlfriend roughly 10 months ago on a dating website. We hit it off immediately, a highly compatible match. Things were great for the majority of the relationship, but more recently some problems have developed which make me consider breaking things off.

The first problem is she lives 2 hours away, 2.5 hours during the school year. We both attend school and I only get to see her on weekends. She doesn't have a vehicle so I'm the one stuck doing all the driving. This locks up a lot of my free time on the weekends; time where I used to be able to go to parties or events with friends is all dedicated to her now, and that's fine, but she gets upset if I ask for a week off to do some other plans that are only available on the weekends and tries to convince me to come visit her instead. I'd be more understanding if she was driving up to meet me like I do her, but from my stand point I'm the one doing all the driving and thus I'm a little offended that she expects me to go out on a limb for her always when she can't give me that in return. It would be much easier for example, if a weekend I wanted to stay home to attend something happening Saturday she could drive up and meet me instead.

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