This is not bait i promise you.

Are there any general sex tips you have for me in terms of penetration (hip motion, positions, technique?

I had quite an active sex life with my ex, foreplay was great, very intimate and got me bone hard, however when it came down to the dirty, I would awkwardly navigate my nightstick to her vag like im pawing at an alarm clock.

She would then help me out and we get started (always got embrassaed about that), a couple minutes later she would ask me to stop as it's hurting. I haven't got a log but it's big enough, however I would have thought that lube would do the trick.

Anyway, it was this for about 4 years b4 we broke up. It's been about 5-6 months since and I'm obv interested in dating or a nsa. But I'll worried about looking like a complete pillock when the girl realizes that I don't really know what I'm doing, due to all the false starts in the past.


This is a desperate situation, help a bro out.