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Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 16:45:58 No.16394532 View Reply Report Delete

So, I've been seeing this girl a lot lately, (we usually eat something or get a cup of tea after classes, we're both in college), and she invited me to go to the cinema tomorrow.I'm 20, I have basically no experience with girls, and I don't know if I should do something, and what.

pls help

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 16:47:17 No.16394539 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394576 >>16394648

she's trying to get to know you

be yourself

she likes you

maybe she wants to be a friend, maybe she wants your dick

we can't tell you which without much more info

don't try, just let it happen and have fun

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 16:53:58 No.16394564 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394576

I think your first step should be to decide what you want. What would you like to try doing with that girl?

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 16:57:03 No.16394576 Report Delete

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>>16394539
Well, we've spent a lot of time talking and shit. She's always lively, she keeps the conversation going and we do have a lot in common. It's been about 4 or 5 weeks since we've started spending time together.

>>16394564
I don't know. That's why I hesitate. I really enjoy spending time with her, and I don't want to ruin everything if she just sees me as a friend.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 17:12:00 No.16394634 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394665

>>16394532
Dude your only right choice here is go for it. Acting like a pussy, avoiding contact and hiding your sexual intents is a surefire way to get to the friendzone.

Lift the chair arm at the cinema, touch her playfully and suggest a coffee later at your place.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 17:16:03 No.16394648 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394665

>>16394539
this guy knows it OP, also dont try to be something else. If you're more quite dont act all macho and shit its gona fuck it up, act like you always act, thats why shes hanging around for you not a character. Might be worth also telling her how you feel straight on if you think she can handle it ok.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 17:16:57 No.16394651 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394665

Here's what you need to do OP.

Consider:
Is the chance at a relationship with this girl worth the chance at losing her friendship? This is a balance you must strike every time you are doing anything alone with a girl. Obviously it's usually more obvious and easier than this, but you either have to go at this movie outing treating it like a date or treating it like a friend thing. The ball is in your court. If you guess wrong she will be disappointed either way, so you should be guessing which ever you want.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 17:21:00 No.16394665 Report Delete

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>>16394648
>>16394651
>>16394634
Thanks for the answers, guys. I guess I'm just going for it. I don't think I can try the whole "touch her playfully" thing, since I really don't have any experience, but I'll try to find the balls to just tell her how I feel.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 17:24:25 No.16394677 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16394732

Hey man, don't be too aggressive with it. Go to your movie, smile a lot, tell her at the end you had a great time. You ask her out next time, then you can set the tone and make a move.

Anonymous

Anonymous Mon 26 Oct 2015 17:38:37 No.16394732 Report Delete

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>>16394677
I'll keep that in mind, thanks. I'll just try to do what sounds right at the moment.

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