Got this email from someone I used to be friend with. I didn't want to be friends with her because I never felt comfortable being around her, and it always felt like she was going to tear me down, and make me feel even dumber than I felt on my own around her. I do come from a somewhat racist family, but I don't judge you based on your color, sexual preference, or religion. But how you carry yourself, and the way you talk to people. She is very well educated, which I find intimidating, but that's not why I no longer wanted to hang out with her. Then I get this very hateful, degrading email, and now it's clear why I don't want to be a part of her life. What should I do?