After going out twice with this lovely, beautiful and smart girl, she sends me the friendship message.

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> At the risk of sounding terribly horrible:
I've had a nice time with you the times we met, but I must admit that I've got more sense of friendship than anything more ... Wish I felt different since you seem like a super guy, both thoughtful and handsome, But I felt it was better to be honest now since we well both are looking for something more?

The dates went good and I thought everything was going the right way, but when I asked if there was something bad to pinpoint that I might have done when we went out, she answers with "You didnt do anything wrong, but i didnt feel the chemistry"

I'm usually good with girls, and have no problem talking or getting in touch with them, but this one girl who I've fallen for doesnt seem to like me.

Now I haven't talked to her in a month, and really want to get in touch with her. The question is; How do I start a conversation with her after all of that?

I know she have her birthday in two weeks time, should I wait until then to start a conversation again with her?