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So I find myself in a really weird situation. Im going to be honest and please dont try to be judgemental about it
Ive been in a relationship for three years, my bf is a college student and doesnt work (rich parents), I work since the beginning, never went to college. My boss has always been one of those pervy old men that flirt with all the female employees, every girl I know has had at least one of these. About a year and two months ago he had me working late, until it was just me specifically. He blatantly came up to me and showed me money and said hed give it to me if we had sex then and there. At the time I was 1) really broke and 2) my bf doesnt work to support me, so I considered it. I said no. Next week he came up to me again after he noticed I kept my mouth shut and offered me more money, it was so much I basically couldnt refuse. I did it once. Then he wanted to do it again the next week, and the next... and its been going on all this time for over a year. Every time I dont want to do something he offers me even more money until I accept it. Hes 40 years older than me. Hes done things id NEVER do to my bf and has pictures, videos, everything, he just keeps throwing money. I regret the cheating aspect but not being able to afford all the great things Ive bought since then that I always wanted.
Since the last month however hes been wanting to do it at least three times a week, sometimes maybe calling me to motels and such. I dont have any sex drive with my bf anymore after work and hes getting suspicious about all the things i buy, he knows i have a shitty job. i was thinking about moving in with my bf and possibly getting married but there is no way that would be possible without him catching on. and I CANNOT stop the affair without losing my job and possibly having my things leaked. Im lost and dont know how to respond. So how do I solve this?
Ive been in a relationship for three years, my bf is a college student and doesnt work (rich parents), I work since the beginning, never went to college. My boss has always been one of those pervy old men that flirt with all the female employees, every girl I know has had at least one of these. About a year and two months ago he had me working late, until it was just me specifically. He blatantly came up to me and showed me money and said hed give it to me if we had sex then and there. At the time I was 1) really broke and 2) my bf doesnt work to support me, so I considered it. I said no. Next week he came up to me again after he noticed I kept my mouth shut and offered me more money, it was so much I basically couldnt refuse. I did it once. Then he wanted to do it again the next week, and the next... and its been going on all this time for over a year. Every time I dont want to do something he offers me even more money until I accept it. Hes 40 years older than me. Hes done things id NEVER do to my bf and has pictures, videos, everything, he just keeps throwing money. I regret the cheating aspect but not being able to afford all the great things Ive bought since then that I always wanted.
Since the last month however hes been wanting to do it at least three times a week, sometimes maybe calling me to motels and such. I dont have any sex drive with my bf anymore after work and hes getting suspicious about all the things i buy, he knows i have a shitty job. i was thinking about moving in with my bf and possibly getting married but there is no way that would be possible without him catching on. and I CANNOT stop the affair without losing my job and possibly having my things leaked. Im lost and dont know how to respond. So how do I solve this?
