My ex used to send me messages on facebook, or contact me in that way, nothing special, and when we met somewhere with other people she used to talk to me. It's unusual for exes to interact that way, right? I know she doesn't want a relationship, is it possible she is manipulating me? I'm supposed to meet with her tomorrow as apparently I "set her a ultimatum" saying I won't hang out with her or interact unless we're together, which I know I haven't said. We were both drunk and she didn't understand what I really wanted to say.