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Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 00:04:36 No.16396154 View Reply Report Delete

I want to live for myself instead of letting my relationships be the source of my happiness.

But I just can't get my mind off my problems with people long enough to enjoy myself.

Anyone having this problem or have any /adv/ice?

McPegasus !!4nagLPzwxlE

McPegasus !!4nagLPzwxlE Tue 27 Oct 2015 00:08:00 No.16396169 Report Delete

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>>16396154
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gE6AVp-2Jic

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 01:09:53 No.16396354 Report Delete

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>>16396154
bump

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 02:47:19 No.16396628 Report Delete

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Yeah I do, it's normal to feel bad. Society bombards us telling us to be in relationships, when in fact its fine to be alone.

I just try to forgive myself for being introverted, socially abrasive, and argumentative. Also understand the bigger picture, you won't be alone forever despite how cynical your outlook might be, just endure these hard days so you can be there when things are good.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 02:51:31 No.16396639 Report Delete

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Sounds like you rely too much on others and aren't a very independent person.

It's strange but I'm the opposite of you. I feel strangled in relationships and friendships and enjoy alone time I get.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 03:00:57 No.16396656 Report Delete

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I remember a very poignant moment in my life you made me recall. Back when I was in 8th grade and broke up with my first girlfriend, my best friend was consoling young stupid me, and said to me something along the lines of
'It sucks, that at this point you can't live without other people'
It feels like a statement so obvious it's null, but the sentiment has a ways haunted me
,Leaf

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 03:18:49 No.16396685 Report Delete

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You probably have an avoidant attachment pattern resulting from a cold upbringing or emotional trauma during childhood. You fear rejection and betrayal, so solitude and self-sufficiency appeal to you. However, you still fundamentally require meaningful relationships to be happy, like every single psychologically healthy person on this planet. Don't give up on people. Get help.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 27 Oct 2015 03:55:00 No.16396722 Report Delete

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>>16396685
>get help
You can't get help for attachment patterns you supreme faggot, it's just how you are based on how your fucking mummy treated you in the first two years

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