I met a guy 10 months ago. Smart, educated, witty, charming, share a lot of interests, interesting.
He fucked around a lot, had a girlfriend for a bit when he was younger, then just fwb/one night stands.His family is seriously fucked up, no one ever gave a shit about him, he has one close friend (that he didn't even see) but he's basically lonely. He was in a really bad depression.
I'm, like, the opposite, even if I've been through depression for long.
For some reason, we clicked.
We spent a LOT of time together, to the point we were basically living together, and rushed through things like idiots. He fucked up after 3 months: he was not able to show any affection or empathy for me, if he wasn't REALLY drunk or in a good mood. We had a big argument and we didn't talk for a month.
He came back and tells me he wants to get better.
He finds a good job, goes to a therapist, starts training, eats better, drinks less, reads more. He starts seeing his old friend and makes some new ones.
He's also a bit more affectionate with me: he texts me every day, he compliments a bit more, he's not afraid to call me his girlfriend sometimes.

I have supported him through this all and I really care about him, but I feel like we aren't at the same level in our relationship.
I have been his best friend and his therapist for the last 6 months and I never showed him my insecurities because he needed support.
Is there something I can do to fix this?