my boyfriend wants to get a new job (his current job gets pretty violent), and about a week ago i found a really good opportunity for one. however, his anxiety prevented him from even speaking to the guy who might have an in for him. i've urged him over and over, but he would get stressed and ask me to drop the topic.

initially, the guy seemed ok with waiting for my bf to come around to talking to him when he feels ready, but now i've lost all contact with the guy. i've tried to reach him, but he ignored me.

my bf has been gathering his nerves for this for so long and says he's getting close to feeling ready; but to be honest, i'm still not sure when my bf will actually confront him.

what can i do?? how can i break the bad news? bf also has depression and tends to be very negative; i know he'll take this badly.