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Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 15:25:27 No.16401871 View Reply Report Delete

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Hey /adv/,
I just started University.
In the past I have been struggling a bit with self confidence but I found my circle of friends back in school and in it I was really relaxed, confident and actually quite charming and funny.
Now in University I start to fall back in the old pattern. It's not as bad as in school but I feel like I am that dumb dork again. I feel like I am just not as skilled in talking with people as others.
Any advice?

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Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 15:32:34 No.16401890 Report Delete

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Same situation as you right now op.

I've decided that next semester I'm going to join clubs about things I'm not familiar with, but interested in. I joined the video game club this semester and everyone seemed to already be in their own cliques (basically groups that only played the same 2 or 3 games).

By joining a club that you're interested in, you can make conversation by asking questions that would be normal for you to ask. You also do so without feeling like everyone you talk to knows less than you about a particular topic.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 15:34:43 No.16401900 Report Delete

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>>16401890
That's actually not a bad idea. Thanks, man.
Wish you all the best, my friend.

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