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Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:34:16 No.16402213 View Reply Report Delete

I really suck at social clues. When you talk with someone via messenger and they reply with
>hehe
>ok
>XDD
>:D

is this a clue the conversation is over?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:38:08 No.16402225 Report Delete

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>>16402213

this is a clue you're talking to a weeb or a 14 year old and need to abandon ship

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Truckerfag !!+KSIm6sOufE Wed 28 Oct 2015 17:38:16 No.16402226 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16402418 >>16402962

It's a clue that you aren't engaging the other person well enough to help the conversation actually progress. You're getting a response, but giving them no foothold to expand the conversation.

Aa Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:18:03 No.16402357 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16402418

because maybe you're not interested in them?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:34:08 No.16402418 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16402432

>>16402226
Well, I'm trying to engaging but they are being dismissive which is werid because they usually message me first, but whatever

>>16402357
I'm interested in them. I'm not the one sending XDD as a reply to everything...

Aa Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:36:15 No.16402432 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16402448

>>16402418
>I'm interested in them. I'm not the one sending XDD as a reply to everything...
it's just how some people are! for me, often a lot of emoji's and 'cute laughter' are a sign of a lot of anxiety and immaturity.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:40:18 No.16402448 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16402475

>>16402432
so should I respond something to them? Because now I just don't say anything and stop talking to this person

Aa Wed 28 Oct 2015 18:44:17 No.16402475 Report Delete

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>>16402448
>so should I respond something to them? Because now I just don't say anything and stop talking to this person
well you're either not on the same wavelength or maturity as them. you could be friendly, i mean, people like this (who talk with a lot of emoji's) are most likely nice people with a scene of humour (allbeit a bit neurotic), you can joke around with most of these people. just have some fun with them, say some silly things, be silly. if you can't do that, perhaps it was never going to work.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 20:43:24 No.16402962 Report Delete

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>>16402226
implying it's OP's fault that the person he's talking to can't get a foothold

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