Sup

Never even been here but the good fellows on /b/ pointed me here. I'm kind of in a dilemma so any advice would be welcome

>Be me
>Father walked out about 17 years ago (was 5 at the time)
>Used to terrorize my mother for a good year
>Never heard from him again after that
>Mother never got over the experience
>Got a call couple days ago at work from a hospital that he was on his deathbed asking to see me
>Didn't go , no fucks given
>Today got a message he died
>No fucks given
>Now his brothers and nieces ask me wether I would allow him a proper burial
>I wouldn't grant him a garbage bag as a coffin but I don't know wether I should deny his syblings this last chance of a decent goodbye.

I live in a shit country where I need to either waiver both the right to any heritage in case I don't want to arrange a burial.

So any advice?