She's completely oblivious, and probably would hate me if I confronted her about it, as she's trying to rekindle her relationship. I'm a borderline psychopath and a good liar/manipulator, and can see what he's doing to her while she's oblivious to it all. Any idea on how to present her with this information without her calling me crazy or hating me? She's one of maybe 3 people I actually care about in my life, so I don't exactly want her to despise me for this, but it needs to be said.