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My long distance boyfriend of two years has been working this 40-60 hour a week job six days a week. We used to be able to talk everyday, but now he comes home exhausted and we are unable to have the same routine. We now only Skype about twice a week at most. We got into a quarrel that lasted a while during this transitional period, things got a little awkward, but they're slowly but surely improving. We're both just stressed and despondent that we can't see each other as much as we used to, but we're adjusting.
The big problem is: sex. Last time we saw each other long term in August, we couldn't keep our hands off each other. That's usually how it is. And slowly, we got out of the habit of cam sex because I think we just realized it wasn't as good as the real thing. But now I realize how important intimacy is in a relationship, regardless if it involves contact or not. We haven't initiated any sort of sex in a while, and I'm really awkward about bringing it up. I don't know how to do it without making it too awkward at all. He says he wants it to happen naturally, but I doubt with his mood he'll ever bring it up, so I think I have to take it upon myself to get him there. He says he's still attracted to me, he's just been in terrible moods.
Any suggestions on how I go about helping him improve his mood and getting sexy for him?
No, I'm not gonna break up with him because of LDR.
The big problem is: sex. Last time we saw each other long term in August, we couldn't keep our hands off each other. That's usually how it is. And slowly, we got out of the habit of cam sex because I think we just realized it wasn't as good as the real thing. But now I realize how important intimacy is in a relationship, regardless if it involves contact or not. We haven't initiated any sort of sex in a while, and I'm really awkward about bringing it up. I don't know how to do it without making it too awkward at all. He says he wants it to happen naturally, but I doubt with his mood he'll ever bring it up, so I think I have to take it upon myself to get him there. He says he's still attracted to me, he's just been in terrible moods.
Any suggestions on how I go about helping him improve his mood and getting sexy for him?
No, I'm not gonna break up with him because of LDR.
