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Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:19:02 No.16403101 View Reply Report Delete

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So I've never posted in advice before. But i am seeking oustide opinions. I know what everyone Im close with will say about situation before i even explain. So a total stranger might have a refreshing view point.
It's to do with my wife of almost 3 years.
I have my story typed up, so if interested i can dump it

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:21:07 No.16403109 Report Delete

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Don't cheat, get divorced if you want to cheat, divorce her if she cheated.
If it's nothing like that go ahead and post your story.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:23:47 No.16403119 Report Delete

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Here goes.
So i knew this girl from highschool. She just my hair junior and senior year, and after i graduated( she was a grade ahead of me)
More or less "stole" her from a kind of friend of mine, who was at the time a shit dick and borderline abusive.
This was 2011
We start dating, it's incredible. If anyone else has experienced it, they know the kind of connection Im talking about. We became best friends very quickly. Shes very cute, caring, funny, just pleasant to be around in general.
Anyway.
We get married in march 2013. Everything is great up to this point, and long after. Fantastic honeymoonin Mexico, start planning our dreams, and life together.

Fast forward to february 2014
She cheated on me. With someone who was supposed to be my friend. More than once.

We work through, because, even in the moment she told me what was going on, that i couldn't leave her. I loved her too much.
Ive been cheated on by nearly every significant other ive had. So it's tough. I love her, and i feel that we can work though it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:25:09 No.16403122 Report Delete

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Within probably 6 months prior to april of this year, she starts getting more and more involved in like, spiritual and psychic beliefs. Like it started with astrology, then tarrot cards, then "crystals"(polished stones) and has proggressed into exchanging, changing, and transmuting energy, manifesting, and other things thst im not quite sure about myself.

Because of this, and her constantly being away from, stsying out late or overnight, i decided i needed a break. In april. I wasnt sure of who she was/was becoming.

Within a few weeks she left home to texas. Then colorado. Then new mexico. Then florida. Then Pennsylvania. And now, back home in ohio.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:26:15 No.16403129 Report Delete

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Since shes been back, we've hung out quite a few times. We actually spent basically thursday to monday together last week minus when i was at work. When im with her it feels just like it was. We're crazy about each other. The love the spark the passion, it's all there.
But she wants to continue traveling. It's always been her dream. And i wanted to do it with her, but im just not in a position that i can. And im still madly in love with her.
What do

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:33:23 No.16403152 Report Delete

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>>16403129
>divorce her if she cheated
is still the answer
Shouldn't be surprising that you stole her from someone, and someone else stole her from you. Let her go "find herself" or whatever, you can do the same.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:39:04 No.16403170 Report Delete

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>>16403152
Obviously it's not as easy as that,or i would have a year and a half ago...
The problem at hand is
We have been sepersted for 6 or 8 months or whatever
We BOTH thought we were done
But we see each other one time, and within days we ball fall right back in love with one another.
But she is convinced she needs to keep traveling, and, while i want to as well, i want to do it on more comfortable terms.
These past 6 months have been hell for me. Imiss her constantly.
Also i may be kind of drunk at this point so forgive my typos, or if I'm leaving out important information.
Any questions will be answered if it helps

Anonymous

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Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:52:32 No.16403220 Report Delete

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>>16403170
Staying with her even after she cheated on you with a friend was bad enough. She has been getting fucked every night by large groups of large foreign men for the past 8 months, and you're still not ready to call it quits. This officially makes you a 4-star Turbocuck.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 21:56:04 No.16403234 Report Delete

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>>16403170
Well if you want to stay with her, you'll just have to accept her traveling and suffer through her being gone. If you can't change the situation, and refuse to remove yourself from it, you just have to deal with it.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 22:05:44 No.16403265 Report Delete

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>>16403234
Well that's kind of what I'm asking.
Obviously she feels strongly about leaving home again. Soon.
But she also has confessed that she misses me very often. And that she still loves me/is in love with me again as well.
So there is some kind of chance of reconciling
Im asking if i should let it play out and enjoy the time/sex i have with her, or try to actually work things out?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 28 Oct 2015 22:19:25 No.16403313 Report Delete

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>>16403265
Honey, you need to TALK TO HER ABOUT THIS. There's no other way around it. Tell her what you're feeling and thinking, what you're afraid of, what you're hoping for, identify the obstacles you see being in the way of that, get it all out there - everything - and see what she has to say. Ask her what she would do in your position. Ask all the questions you're not afraid to ask here but are afraid to bring up with her.

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