>>16403132Ok you were a kid, I would have to assume this was someone older than you. We are taught as children to respect people older than us, and when issues occur that you probably dont have much, if any of an understanding of, it makes it very difficult.How do you defend yourself against someone older than you. also if it was someone you knew that can make it awkward and somehow make it seem strange to a child but somehow not wrong because it is someone you know and they wouldnt do anything bad to you. if it was a stranger that sets a whole groundwork for fear and intimidation that can be traumatic for a child. You do NOT come across as a "pussy" or a "faggot" this is something that happened to you that you could not be expected to control. As far as your father goes, if he has any shame or embarrassment it should be because he failed to protect you, and the fact that his own child is afraid of telling him. You did NOT "let yourself" get molested, this is something that was DONE TO YOU against your will. If you have not been in therapy for this issue i recommend you do so.
Anon i was molested as a child, and even though i am a gay man, and this was done to me by a man, it was unwanted unwelcome and wrong. you have nothing to be ashamed of, and for you or anyone else who is curious, I am NOT gay because of what happened to me, i am gay DESPITE it.
