Feel pretty bad right now. When I was 13 I told myself "NEVER EVER LOVE A FAT GIRL! NEVER EVER LOVE A BLACK GIRL!" I am 25 years old now and I think I like a.. chunkier girls.

I feel kind of angry about it because if you are a guy who dates chunky women, people laugh at you and what not. It doesn't help either that I am a black guy and the stereotypes are really prominent if you are a black guy dating chubbier girls.

I feel like shit. I wish I liked the really skinny girls because no one ever makes fun of people for liking skinny girls.

What sucks most is that I don't want to hurt any womans feelings and what I fear may happen is I date some chunky girl and end up NEVER telling anyone I am dating her or never going OUT to date with her.

Help? Not really sure what is the play here.