I'm 24, only a few years after high school did my youthful locks start going to shit. Looking back at old pics I had hair like a hobbit, which I could swish when I headbanged at shows, it was fun. Then I matured to buzzcuts that looked badass and I'd sometimes grow it out into short but kind of a messy pompadour I guess. Anyways I can't do any of that anymore, you can see tons of scalp and looking in the mirror or pictures just makes me want to die. I can make it presentable but its a pain in the ass and takes time like a girl getting ready, and I'm always worried about the wind blowing it out of place.

I'm highly considering shaving it all after a wedding next week. For those of you baldies, did it change your life? Did you let go of your insecurities and start to win? I feel like most of my insecurities stem from my balding problem. I'm hoping that i can be free and change myself by letting go, but I'm not sure if it works that way.