Three years ago I met this girl let's say(x) at a party one weekend when I came home from college. I was hanging out with my buddies tossing a few back and out of no where (x) shows up we kick it off she starts grinding on me and I've never had this happen before so I go with it we dance have a great night talk by the bonfire goes on for about 5-6 hours. Ask her if she wants to go back to my place, but she tells me she caught a ride to the party with her friend which she did like myself, so it was understandable. We lose contact after that. I start dating this horrible succubus(y)We were living in town where girl(x) happened to live and shortly before I ended it with (y), (x) moved to a different state. Well I ended up moving back in with my family who live in the same state as(x)now we have been great for not talking for years, she has a job, goes to the gym seems to have her shit together unlike when she lived in previous state. And after the whole shpeel I went through with(y)I am looking for a woman who has something to put on the table and doesnt have anything to lie about and wants to settle down. To me(x)has those qualities now. We have been talking about how it was a mistake we never went back home with each other how things could have been different she's always making subtle hints about a relationship.And we have been making plans to hang out and see each other for a week now and keep in mind neither of us have friends. But as the time came around today I was about to head out and she made some lame excuse her long lost friend showed up. And later in the night she said we should go catch a movie so once again I said I was ready to go and her aunt who she lives with "came home and said they have dinner reservations". I am totally flabbergasted and now she's not answering my messages. So my question is am I just being paranoid about the sit or is she not what I think she is and is just enjoying the attention I provide her with.