So, I have been good friends with this girl for over a year. About a month or so we started hanging out a lot more and developed feelings for each other.

Last week we went to the bar after which we held hands and watched a movie and cuddled.

Today, she approached me to talk, and said things are going too fast and she has a lot of feelings she wants to deal with before coming with an answer for me (I asked her out after she asked me where did I think this was going).

The thing is, we both have a mutual friend which would make things awkward if we broke up.

Also, we both had shitty relationship histories, but I think this actually might be a good basis for us.

I asked if she wanted to talk about it again next week and she said yes.

Also, before out talk, a day after the bar, we agreed to watch a movie at my house on Sunday. She said she still wanted to see it, and I agreed to it.

I guess my question is, why is she taking so long and is she actually blowing me off?