Alright /adv/ I keep on hitting blanks when I get matches on tinder. I don't get a whole lot of matches (live out in the middle of nowhere, near country girls where I always swipe left, which makes for low match count) and so when I do get a few matches I'd like to keep them.

I've already got unmatched before when I asked a girl for her #. I sometimes unmatch myself simply because I get no messages back. Idk I had success once, ONCE and we actually dated until I figured out she was insane and we broke up.

What do I say after making dumb small talk for a few days? Can I go for the #? I'm fucking up hard /adv/.