I need advice regarding my needs and a long term relationship, I don’t know who to speak with IRL. So I was hoping that my first post (long time lurker) can be helpful!
>male, 20 years, DK
>be in 2 years relationship, gf is female and 18 years
>close to perfect relationship, but she lacks the motivation to do socially things with my social surroundings (friends, family, etc.)
>fair enough, she does not have the same social needs that I do
>had this party last saturday (went into town after a few hours of drinking)
>my gf is not participating
>my friend brings a girl (the only girl at the party before we go to town, a normal thing since my class had 26 boys and 1 girl)
>believes she has a relationship with my friend, but I still go a little flirty, we speak, laugh, and play drinking games together
>I don’t think my flirting was obvious, and it wasn’t really flirting
>I never really got wasted, only fairly drunk, I remember everything from the night
>me and a few friends + the girl dances, her friend left
>she “hangs” on me, we get to talk more, and once we get real close
>we got our heads twisted, like when you kiss, deep eye-contact (first time we were alone)
>she wants to stay inside, but I want to go outside, the moment we break eye-contact and I move
>she says, that she wished I did not have a relationship
>go home earlier, because my cousin was not feeling well
>feel like drinking more, so I drink more, alone, when I get home
>I begin to feel that I’m missing some part of my life, by being in a relationship
>almost had the wanting for one night stands, flirting with girls at bars and then doing something about it
>I feel confident with girls, no problems there
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