>>16404914Ha, my girlfriend's wondered the same thing. During blow jobs I make a lot more noise than sex, and she's expressed wishing that I did it more during sex.
Truth is, making noise is pretty much purely for her benefit and is something I have to actively and consciously think about doing.
During actual penetrative sex, my brain is too preoccupied doing other things, like new positions, stroke patterns, minuet adjustment to angles, gentle carasses of her back/arms/whatever, kisses to steal her breath and the corresponding change in her tightness, breathing, the way she squirms, and gasps.
I like being pretty experimental, I'm probably too cerebral about sex tbh, but it gets me off having her get off. Even when I switch over to trying to please myself, i'm too busy losing myself in the rhythm and pleasure of the thrust to think about making noise.
For anyone who says, "doing it wrong". i've had full body orgasms where the world went dark and buzzlingly mute, and pulsating waves of pleasure tingled down my neck, through my spine, and into my very fingers and toes, leaving me unable to even stand for a solid twenty minutes after. Still didn't really make much noise.
