>>16405129If i can recommend you Stephen Coveys book "the 7 habits".
He talks about the feeling of hopelessness or "playing the cards you're given". What makes us humans the most powerful animals in the world is that we're think about our thinking.
Think of it in terms of computers, we can really rewrite our programming if we really put work into it. No other animal can do this. They respond to ANY stimulus with their instinct. We, however, can CHOOSE to not be upset if someone calls us a faggot. If we get angry, we are then limiting ourselves.
My point is, you can totally consciously change your outcomes. Don't believe your life is destined by the hands your dealt with, your only limiting yourself. CHOOSE not to give a fuck and be above your current 'programming'.
Be forreal, read the book.
