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how to find a better girl

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:09:36 No.16405682 View Reply Report Delete

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>met girl on tinder
>completely smitten, most beautiful girl ive ever seen with a lovely personality too
>she likes someone else
>i can't seem to be interested in other girls
>every girl seems ugly or boring compared to her
>go on pof since tinder won't work for me anymore and every girl on that is a nightmare
>trying to find someone anywhere to make me forget about her but all I want is her, can't have her though. feels bad.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:12:56 No.16405692 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405705

just stop talking with her, after a while, "normal" girls will be interesting enough, i'm in the same case right now.

I want this girl, she might not be the best looking, or with the greatest personnality, but i just WANT her and i find her beautiful the way she is, unfortunately she explicitely told me that nothing's going to happen, so i stopped talking to her, things are getting better :)

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:15:34 No.16405701 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405709

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:17:39 No.16405705 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405713 >>16405714

>>16405692
I keep dreaming about her and stuff though, and waking up sad. I decided to stop hitting her up and when I did she texted me after 5 days, saying sorry she hasn't been around and stuff, then told me she's seeing someone. So I told her how I felt just because I had to get it off my chest or I'd be feeling crummy. So she knows now, and I'm kind of hopelessly hoping it'll sink in and she'll start to think about it, but nothing will happen I'm sure. I just wanna tell her more about that but that's all I said. And I'm going to stop hitting her up again.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:18:30 No.16405709 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405718

Just ignore it, create physical and emotional distance. Distraction works like a charm, just give it time. Also, ignore stupid PUA fucks like >>16405701. Makes your life better, too.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:21:36 No.16405713 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405724

>>16405705

Seriously dude, stop all contact. The moment someone does not want you but you want them, stop the contact. Of course it will hurt for a while, but that's life bro. Many have been through this.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:22:46 No.16405714 Report Delete

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>>16405705
i know that bro, i've told her how i felt too, biggest mistake ever.
I'm a slow learner, i should have know that you open up your feeling once you ARE with the girl, not before !
Next time she text you, just don't answer, drop her out of your life, the mini depression will fade away :) keep your mind busy, do stuff that you enjoy, see some friends etc..

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:24:40 No.16405718 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405730

>>16405709
Did you even watch it ? I'm not typically into the PUA stuff either, and I'm aware that this guy is a cunt most of the time, but this video is decent.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:26:14 No.16405724 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405736 >>16405745

>>16405713
What if things change though? They may never, they may not for a long time, but sometimes they do. What if she decides she misses me and I'm a lot cooler than the dude she's with? Its happened before, when I stayed in contact just a little with another girl.

The bro answer is always to cut ties and 'lose that bitch', but if you do that, no future possibilities can ever happen.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:28:01 No.16405730 Report Delete

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>>16405718
No I did not, no need. Don't feel offended, with "stupid PUA fucks" I was referring to that idiot, mostly. But then again by just dumping a youtube link to that guy... you gotta deal with comments.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:29:57 No.16405736 Report Delete

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>>16405724
if you're seriously considering this, then you're betting your "happiness" like you gamble on poker... very dangerous, just move on bro, you'll be better don't worry

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:33:58 No.16405745 Report Delete

Quoted By: >>16405762

>>16405724
Nah man. Nobody is interested in someone who emotionally told them about their feelings and who they then rejected. And IF that happens, don't you think she would go the extra mile?
If you moved on, are happy with yourself... YOU could give her another chance, right?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:39:12 No.16405762 Report Delete

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>>16405745
I didn't tell her how I felt hoping she'd pick me, I told her because I had to get it off my chest or i would have felt like shit.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 29 Oct 2015 16:42:17 No.16405772 Report Delete

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Because she flaked on me the last day we had plans, that was when i was going to tell her (on sweetest day). But then she sent a Snapchat story later that night of her with her friends. I didn't even think much of it then, but now I know that one of those friends is the guy she's seeing.

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